Jax Taylor Slips Up About the Real State of His Marriage While Jesse Lally Admits His Own Is Over
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The most recent episode of The Valley showed us once again the heartbreaking breakdown of multiple marriages.
On Tuesday, May 21, during The Valley, viewers witnessed Jesse Lally and Jax Taylor facing personal turmoil as their marriages began to unravel. Despite their own struggles, the two co-stars couldn't resist getting involved in each other's marital issues, beginning with Jax.
Jax stirred up some drama by telling Michelle Lally about rumors of her sending "sexy photos" to a celebrity. Michelle denied flirting with other men but did admit to being in touch with people for work.
Michelle, who has since broken up with Jesse, explained that Jesse is aware of everything. She clarified that when she meets a celebrity, she gets excited because she sees them as a potential client. Therefore, she frequently communicates with them through calls, texts, emails, and coffee meetings. She dismissed the accusations from Jax as "nonsense."
After Michelle told Jesse about the false claims, he wasn't worried. Instead, he pointed the finger at Kristen Doute for spreading many rumors about his marriage.
Jesse shared with the cameras, "Kristen has never worked a day in her life except for selling T-shirts. I don't think she knows how to find new leads for business." He added, "I just tell Michelle to go talk to those five guys in the room and get their phone numbers."
He expressed, "You can see how much this is bothering me, right? I really don't care who she's talking to. I'm not the jealous type. Let's just move forward."
Jax pointed out that Jesse's reaction raised concerns. "If I discovered Brittany was texting other guys, I would be furious," Jax remarked. "Now I'm starting to think there might be something going on. Where there's smoke, there's usually fire."
The episode took an unexpected twist when Jax and Jesse were joined by Danny Booko and Jason Caperna for a heartfelt discussion. Jesse became emotional as he opened up about the struggles in his marriage.
"I really want another child, but she doesn't want to," Jesse shared tearfully. "It's tough. I'm giving it my all, but I feel like we're drifting apart. Michelle is going in one direction, and I'm trying to catch up with her, but she's moving further away."
Jesse was feeling unsure about the future of his marriage. He couldn't see it getting better. "Can you imagine being 43 years old, single, and raising a daughter? It's a lot to handle. Isabella is my top priority," he said tearfully to the cameras. "It's hard to picture her growing up without both her parents together."
Jesse started to think that his marriage was falling apart while Jax continued to push Brittany away. Their arguments escalated when Jax accused Brittany of drinking excessively once again.
During one heated exchange, Jax said to Brittany, "You are the only woman who keeps getting sick and throwing up. You are always drinking. I can't stand by and support you when you are getting drunk."
Jax confessed in a private conversation that his issues with Brittany had been ongoing for nine years. He shared, "It's been a tough road. I thought things would improve after Cruz was born, but Brittany seems to struggle balancing her fun side with being a mother. Seeing her struggle the next day is really hard for me. I feel like I'm reaching my breaking point."
Jax exacerbated the situation by accusing Brittany of lying about not drinking loudly. Brittany, feeling hurt, responded by telling Jax that everyone present supported her and that he was trying to portray her in a negative light. She also expressed her disappointment in him for his actions.
Later, Brittany confided in her The Valley costars, revealing that this behavior was a recurring pattern in their marriage.
"He always puts me down," she confessed. "I feel like Jax is draining all the life out of me. He's taking away my sparkle. How much more of this can I handle? After nine years, I'm starting to see all the little things I've endured. I still believe in love, but what if love isn't enough?"
Jax believed that Brittany's health problems were a way of seeking help.
"If you struggle with handling alcohol, then maybe it's time to take a break from drinking. Vomiting? Are you still in college? You're a mom now. This has been a recurring issue for years. Perhaps I should confront her in front of others to make her realize the extent of the problem," he suggested. "It's concerning that she relies on alcohol to the point of getting sick."
On the other hand, Brittany attributed her discomfort to Jax. "I acknowledge that I haven't been treating my body well. But having one drink doesn't automatically mean I have a drinking problem," she pointed out. "He's making me feel like I do. I've been under a lot of stress and unhappiness, and it's taking a toll on my health."
She continued to express her feelings, saying that Jax may not value her as much as before because he believes she will always forgive him quickly. She explained that this behavior is causing emotional harm to her.
Later in the episode, Jesse tried to give advice to Jax, but he showed no interest in receiving it.
Jax fired back, "I am never going to ask you for advice. Ever ever ever. I love you to death but Jesus Christ, your marriage is on the fence, too," before realizing his mistake. He quickly added, "I shouldn’t have said that. My marriage is not on the fence."
Despite his outburst, Jax clarified that his comments did not accurately represent the state of his own marriage.
"I misspoke earlier when I said my marriage is on the fence. In reality, my wife and I are deeply in love and we are committed to each other. Divorce and separation are not options for us," he clarified. "I will stand by her side forever, and she will never leave me."
Although Jax mentioned he was facing a minor challenge in his marriage, his friends on the show were skeptical. Jesse, in particular, pointed out that Jax was displaying similar behavior to what he did before his previous marriage ended.
I empathize with Jax. I've been in his shoes before. Jax and Brittany are currently going through what my wife and I experienced a year ago. They seem to be in a phase of denial. Jax, my friend, you need to learn from my mistakes. Pay attention to the warning signs and make the necessary changes before it's too late.
The preview for the next episode only added to the tension. When asked if he would let Brittany go, Jax confidently stated, "No. My wife would never leave me." On the other hand, Brittany seemed to have a different perspective as she mentioned that divorce was a possibility.
The Valley airs on Bravo Tuesdays at 9 p.m. ET and is available to stream on Peacock the next day.
Editor's P/S:
The latest episode of "The Valley" has shed light on the complexities of marriage and the struggles faced by Jax Taylor and Jesse Lally. While Jax grapples with his wife Brittany's alleged alcohol abuse and his own insecurities, Jesse confronts the heartbreaking reality of his deteriorating marriage with Michelle.
Jax's denial of his marital issues, despite his friends' concerns, is a familiar pattern that mirrors his past relationship. His reluctance to acknowledge potential problems suggests a deep-seated fear of losing Brittany. Jesse, on the other hand, exhibits a more mature approach by seeking guidance from friends and acknowledging the need to address the underlying issues in his marriage. The episode serves as a poignant reminder that relationships require constant effort, communication, and a willingness to face challenges head-on.