The Surprising Plot Twist in Raven Gates and Adam Gottschalk's Love Story
From their first meeting on 'Bachelor in Paradise' in 2017, Raven Gates and Adam Gottschalk's relationship has had its ups and downs Follow their journey through the years as they navigate love, distance, and personal growth together
Raven Gates and Adam Gottschalk, a successful couple from Bachelor Nation, have managed to survive post-Bachelor in Paradise, and have finally exchanged their vows after several pandemic-related setbacks. Due to the coronavirus crisis, Gates had to replan their wedding three times before finally tying the knot. Despite having to halt the planning process entirely at one point, she remained optimistic and told Adam that they could elope and get married at home if there was no end in sight. However, with a light at the end of the tunnel, the couple decided to reschedule their wedding for the fourth time.
After multiple postponements due to the pandemic, the wedding finally took place in April 2021, marking a joyous occasion for Grey Suede owner, Raven Gates, and her now-husband, Adam Gottschalk. The couple's love story began during the filming of BiP season 4 in 2017, where they hit it off and continued their relationship off-camera. Despite not proposing during the show, the couple remained committed and knew they needed more time to nurture their bond due to living in different cities. Gates jokingly mentioned in an interview that she was promised a "really big ring" by Gottschalk, and they felt no pressure from producers to get engaged on the show.
Just shy of two years later, the duo disclosed their engagement on Instagram with a collection of photographs that showcased their undeniable affection for each other. Along with a glimpse of her dazzling ring, the Arkansas native wrote, "I'm keeping you forever and for always. We will be together all of our days."
During the lengthy engagement period, the couple devoted ample time to contemplate their future and starting a family. "I have baby fever, but Adam has extreme baby fever," Gates revealed to Us in August 2020. She also mentioned that if they accidentally conceived a child, it would be "totally fine" since her partner was more than eager to become a dad.
Prior to starting their family, the couple prioritized their highly anticipated ceremony at the Olana in Dallas, which they expected to be filled with intense emotion. Despite the challenges posed by the pandemic, Gottschalk expressed their readiness for the wedding in a video tour of the venue in March 2021. Check out their love story below, as seen on Bachelor Nation.
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Raven Gates and Adam Gottschalk's Relationship Timeline
Raven Gates and Adam Gottschalk have proven that love can indeed survive beyond the Bachelor Nation bubble. The couple, who met on Bachelor in Paradise, had to weather several pandemic-related delays before finally tying the knot. But their perseverance and commitment to each other is a testament to the strength of their relationship.
Gates shared with Us Weekly in August 2020 that she had to replan her wedding three times due to the pandemic and had even considered eloping if there was no end in sight by December. However, in April 2021, the couple finally tied the knot after rescheduling their wedding from May 2020. Gates shared her excitement on Instagram, expressing her joy in becoming Mrs. Gottschalk and starting their life together as a family.
After meeting on the set of BiP's fourth season in 2017, the couple's love continued to flourish beyond the finale. Despite not proposing on the show, Gottschalk and Gates felt they needed more time to strengthen their relationship as they were living in different cities. Gates humorously mentioned how Gottschalk promised her a grand ring, and explained that there was no pressure from producers to get engaged during the episode. Almost two years later, the couple shared their engagement news on Instagram with a series of heartfelt photos, showcasing their undeniable love for one another. Gates captioned the photos with beautiful words, expressing her commitment to keeping Gottschalk forever and always.
As they prepared for their wedding, Gates and Gottschalk also considered starting a family together. Gates expressed her desire for children, but noted that her fiancé Adam had an even stronger desire to become a parent. They both felt ready to embark on this next chapter of their lives, but first they were focused on their upcoming wedding. Despite the challenges presented by the COVID-19 pandemic, the couple remained determined to make their ceremony at the Olana in Dallas a meaningful and emotional experience.
Scroll down to relive Gates and Gottschalk's Bachelor Nation success story:
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Summer 2017
The pair met during season 4 of BiP but didn't get engaged on the finale, instead deciding to wait and see how their long-distance relationship played out off camera.
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October 2018
During their fall 2018 trip to Thailand, the couple shared numerous photos on social media, including one where Gates captions, "Hi from Bangkok." In another post, Gates mentions that Adam had been calling her his "little demon," but after finally adjusting to the 12-hour time difference, he now refers to her as "my sweetness."
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January 2019
During a recent interview on Kaitlyn Bristowe's "Off the Vine" podcast, Gates opened up about her experience with Gottschalk in the fantasy suite and described it as "mind-blowing." She shared that while they were on Bachelor in Paradise, he would take her into the ocean and say some naughty things to her. However, it was in the fantasy suite where he really impressed her. "He did the damn thing," Gates said. "And that's when I knew for sure that he was the one."
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May 2019
Gottschalk shared a video of himself preparing to propose with the caption, "This weekend has been a work in progress for the last 4 months. I went to bed with you Thursday night as my girlfriend and woke up to you as my fiancée on Friday!!"
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May 2020
They refused to let the pandemic ruin their special day, so even though their wedding had to be postponed, they decided to mark the original date with a celebratory photo shoot. Boaz, their beloved furry friend, joined in the fun and they even cruised around their neighborhood in a vintage car borrowed from a friend.
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April 2021
Gates shared a photo of the couple holding their marriage certificate just days before the wedding. "It's happening!" she wrote.
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April 2021
The couple tied the knot in April 2021 in Dallas, Texas.
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April 2021
The newlywed couple chose to spend their honeymoon in Hawaii after their wedding ceremony in Dallas. Gottschalk captured some sweet moments from their tropical escape, such as Gates enjoying a refreshing drink from a coconut and the two of them exploring the island on bikes.
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June 2021
The couple shared with Us exclusively that they have plans to start a family soon. They jokingly admitted to both having "major baby fever" and have discussed the possibility of having "two or three" children.
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July 2021
On the occasion of her fourth wedding anniversary, Gates shared a unique painted rendition of a photograph taken on her special day with her now-husband. Overflowing with affection, she expressed her gratitude for the privilege of holding his hand throughout this lifetime in their marriage vows.
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July 2021
Gates revealed via Instagram that she and Gottschalk had a “honeymoon baby” due in January 2022, writing, "OVER THE MOON EXCITED TO SHARE THE NEWS."
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January 2022
"Sharing the news of their new arrival, Gottschalk took to Instagram Stories to reveal the birth of their baby boy. After pushing for an hour and a half, an emergency C-section was required, but both mom and baby are now doing well."
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April 2022
"We have taken every type of therapy available as a preventive measure," Gates shared on the "Click Bait With Bachelor Nation" podcast. "Our diverse backgrounds and upbringings can be a challenge. He grew up in California with a large family, and I was raised in the South by my mother alone. But we've made it work by seeking pre-marital counseling and even inter-faith counseling to address any differences before they became issues. We also received counseling before starting a family, which helped us prepare for the transition. It's been instrumental in our successful relationship."
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September 2022
The duo were all smiles while attending Amanda Stanton and Michael Fogel’s “stunning” California wedding.
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October 2022
The duo celebrated Bachelor Nation’s Madison Prewett at her Texas wedding.
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November 2022
The twosome cheered on the Arkansas Razorbacks during football season.
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November 2022
The couple snuggled up to their son while spending Thanksgiving in California.
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January 2023
The two announced that they are expecting their second child. "Baby #2 due in July! Any tips on two under 2? Pray for us!… especially Adam ," Gates shared via Instagram.
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February 2023
The duo jetted off to Mexico with their son as an early babymoon amid their second pregnancy with their son by their side.
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June 2023
The expectant celebrity flew to Italy with her spouse to enjoy their official babymoon, leaving their child behind. "Summers in Lake Como are a must. We aim to take one major trip each year to not only escape work but to also reconnect as a couple," shared the real estate agent on social media upon their return. "This was our little baby moon prior to the arrival of baby #2. It was such an exquisite place and wonderful lady to explore with."
