Exclusive Insights from Brittany Cartwright: Navigating Marriage Woes and Friendships in 'The Valley' (Must-Read)

Brittany Cartwright is prioritizing herself now and sharing all the details with us.

She became a part of Vanderpump Rules in 2015 when she began dating Jax Taylor. Although they left the Bravo show in 2020, they are back on the network in the spinoff series, The Valley. This series premiered right after Cartwright and Taylor separated in real-time.

Cartwright shared in her We cover story of their reality TV return that maybe Jax had become a bit arrogant again, reverting back to his old self after making positive changes for Cruz. She expressed feeling disappointed as things progressively worsened throughout the season. Jax would often remind her of his contributions, such as securing a show for them, insinuating she would be nothing without him.

As Cartwright and Taylor focus on co-parenting their 3-year-old son Cruz, they are placing his well-being as a top priority while they navigate their separation and potentially move towards a divorce.

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Read We’s cover story with Cartwright here and keep scrolling for more takeaways:

Brittany Cartwright’s Search for Something More in Her Marriage

Cartwright was feeling the strain of Taylor's lack of appreciation for their marriage and family. She expressed her frustration, saying that he often takes her and everything they have for granted. According to her, Taylor is always searching for something new and seems never satisfied. This constant need for more puts pressure on Cartwright, who is content and grateful for what they have. She feels blessed by their life together, while Taylor is always on the go, never seeming to slow down or appreciate their blessings.

Jax Taylor's Lack of Commitment When It Comes to Their Marriage

Cartwright mentioned that Taylor struggled with finding happiness despite having their son, a beautiful home, a bar, a successful podcast, and exciting opportunities. She expressed her frustration at his ongoing dissatisfaction, questioning when they would finally reach a point of contentment.

Cartwright shared her frustration with Taylor's inconsistent efforts to address their issues. She mentioned that Taylor often talks about seeking help but then cancels his appointments. This behavior, according to Cartwright, shows that he is not following through with his words. He complains about needing help but fails to take action to actually get it.

Cartwright called Taylor’s behavior “super frustrating” for her.

Marking Her Return to Reality TV

Brittany Cartwright recently shared that she was not hesitant about returning to work. The only thing she was unsure about was balancing work with being a new mom to her son, who is now their main focus. Despite this, she felt ready to come back and give her all, believing that giving everything is what makes a good show.

Which of Brittany Cartwright’s ‘VPR’ and ‘The Valley’ Costars Have Supported Her?

My friends have been incredibly supportive. Janet Caperna and Kristen Doute have always been there for me. The entire cast of The Valley has shown me so much love and support, including Jasmine Goode. I always feel surrounded by their care and concern.

Even Cartwright's former costars from Vanderpump Rules have not wavered in their support for her.

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Feeling the Love from Scheana and Lala

She shared, "Scheana [Shay] and Lala [Kent] are constantly texting me, checking in out of the blue, and ensuring that we hang out. I have a tight bond with my family. My mom is always by my side, and I have friends from childhood who are like family to me."

Considering Disappointing Loved Ones and Contemplating Returning

Cartwright shared her concerns about potentially disappointing her loved ones due to her separation. She expressed her fears about her marriage not working out and the devastating impact it had on her. However, she realized that her family and friends, who have known her ex-husband Jax for a long time, were not judging her. They have been incredibly supportive during this difficult time, despite her rollercoaster of emotions. One moment she may feel adamant about not reconciling with her ex, only to feel lonely and conflicted the next day. Her friend Kristen pointed out that she is going through various stages of grieving - feeling mad, angry, and sad. This insight resonated with Cartwright, helping her navigate through the complexities of her emotions.

Brittany Cartwright’s Efforts to Help Jax Taylor

Cartwright shared her thoughts on Taylor’s issues with Doute on The Valley. In Season 1, Taylor expressed concerns about Doute's choice to have a family with her boyfriend Luke Broderick.

Having Hope for Her Former Friendship With Stassi Schroeder

I have been close friends with Kristen the whole time. Currently, I am in L.A. and she has been closer to me than Jax. I find myself constantly trying to smooth things between them. I often question why I am doing this. I catch myself trying and realize that I need to stop. He needs to see what it is like without me doing everything for him.

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Cartwright and Stassi Schroeder have not kept in touch since she missed Cartwright's wedding to Beau Clark in May 2022. Cartwright mentioned that Schroeder has not reached out or checked in since news of their separation came out.

She expressed her sadness over the situation but remains hopeful that their friendship can be restored in the future. Cartwright admitted to missing Schroeder and the bond they once shared.

Editor's P/S:

Brittany Cartwright's journey through separation and co-parenting is a poignant and relatable one. Her experiences highlight the challenges of navigating a marriage that has lost its spark and the importance of prioritizing one's own well-being. Cartwright's openness about her struggles and her determination to find happiness and fulfillment serve as an inspiration to others facing similar circumstances.

The article provides valuable insights into the complexities of Cartwright's relationship with Jax Taylor. Her frustrations with his lack of appreciation, constant search for something more, and inconsistent efforts to address their issues are common themes in relationships that have reached a crossroads. Cartwright's decision to prioritize her own happiness and set boundaries is a powerful example of self-care and empowerment.