The Enchanting Love Story of RHONJ's Lauren Manzo and Vito Scalia: Unveiling their Extraordinary Journey
Despite a promising start in 2009, RHONJ's Lauren Manzo and Vito Scalia's relationship sadly ended in 2023 with Vito filing for divorce after eight years of marriage Their journey was marked by ups and downs, as reflected in key milestones from 2013 to 2023
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Fans of The Real Housewives of New Jersey avidly followed the decade-long love story between Lauren Manzo and her now-estranged husband, Vito Scalia.
The couple's relationship began in 2009, sparked by an introduction through Lauren's older brother, Albie Manzo. Initially, Albie had concerns that his bond with Scalia would be affected by Scalia's involvement with Lauren. Nevertheless, the group managed to find a resolution.
Lauren and Scalia became engaged in 2013 after being together for four years. Their wedding took place in July 2015 and was featured on the television show Manzo'd With Children, a spinoff of the Manzo family, which aired from 2014 to 2016.
After the ceremony, Lauren expressed her excitement and happiness on Instagram, stating, "Last night was absolutely perfect and surreal. I had the wedding of my dreams, with a fairytale dress, but most importantly, I had my best Prince Charming by my side to share it with... I love you, my HUSBAND!!!"
In October 2023, Lauren confirmed the end of her eight-year marriage to Scalia. She mentioned on Instagram that the decision had been mutual and long overdue. Now, let's take a look back at their complete relationship timeline.
2009
Scalia and Lauren started dating after meeting through Lauren’s older brother, Albie. The beginning of their romance was documented on early seasons of RHONJ.
November 2013
After four years of dating, Scalia proposed to Lauren. Her immediate response was one of immense joy. "I can't believe how happy I am!" exclaimed Lauren. "I'm still in shock. I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with my best friend. Well, technically he was my brother's best friend first, but I managed to win him over!"
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July 2015
The couple tied the knot in a wedding that was filmed for Bravo’s Manzo’d With Children.
February 2017
The twosome welcomed their first baby, daughter Marchesa Anna, who goes by Markie.
January 2019
Scalia addressed speculation regarding his marital status, responding to fans who noticed that Lauren hadn't shared any photos of him on social media for over a year. Taking to Facebook, he clarified, "We choose not to showcase our relationship on social media, but that doesn't mean anything is wrong. We are perfectly happy!"
Caroline Manzo, Lauren's mother, also defended her daughter's marriage, dismissing rumors during an interview on Albie's "Dear Albie" podcast. She boldly stated, "For those wondering, Lauren and Vito are still happily married. Lauren simply chooses not to share much online to avoid dealing with unnecessary drama. It's as simple as that. We already deal with enough negativity, so she prefers to avoid it."
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August 2020
July 2023
Caroline provided an update on Lauren's family, assuring that everyone was alive, in good health, and filled with happiness. She shared these details during her appearance on Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen. Caroline further mentioned that Lauren, Vito, and Markie were thriving, while Vito Scalia's deli and restaurant remained in operation. She also noted that Lauren Manzo's salons continued to flourish.
Lauren responded to inquiries about her relationship status on social media after users noticed her absence of a wedding ring in a photo. Via Instagram, she emphatically stated, "To begin with, I genuinely do not care if you approve of me or not. Secondly, it has been seven years since I appeared on TV, and I have the right to maintain certain aspects of my life as private, especially after becoming a parent. If you do not appreciate this, kindly refrain from visiting my page. It really is as simple as that."
September 2023
Scalia filed for divorce from Lauren, citing irreconcilable differences as the reason for the split.
October 2023
Lauren disclosed that she and Scalia had been anticipating their separation prior to his divorce filing becoming public knowledge. In an Instagram video, she reassured her followers, stating, "I would like to inform you all that we are doing well. This decision was made a while ago." She further added, "Filing the divorce was just the final step. We both agreed on it. It was a mutual decision."
Emphasizing the importance of their privacy, she stated that their daughter is the primary concern. Lauren clarified, "We haven't appeared on television in seven years, which is why we felt there was no need for a dramatic announcement." She continued, "We are moving forward with love and respect for one another. We will always remain a family, solely for our daughter's sake. She did not choose to be in the spotlight – we did."
