Remembering Grayson Murray: A High School Teammate's Reflection on Their Last Chat

Golfer Grayson Murray's High School Teammate Reflects on Their Final Conversation Before His Death

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Golfer Carter Jenkins remembered his last chat with his high school friend and teammate, Grayson Murray. Jenkins shared with the Raleigh News & Observer on Tuesday, May 28, that he had asked Murray about his upcoming participation in the Masters and the U.S. Open, as well as how his game was going.

Jenkins bumped into Murray a few weeks back at Raleigh’s Wildwood Green Golf Club. They used to play together as teammates at Leesville Road High School.

“It was a laid-back chat,” Jenkins recalled. “I never thought it would be our final one.”

Murray, aged 30, tragically passed away on Saturday, May 25. His parents, Eric and Terry, shared that he died by suicide.

Despite the difficult circumstances following Murray's loss, Jenkins is gearing up to participate in this weekend's Korn Ferry Tour event, the UNC Healthcare Championship, at Raleigh Country Club.

Golfer Grayson Murray's High School Teammate Reflects on Their Final Conversation Before His Death

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As Jenkins mentioned, "I woke up and realized that he wasn't there."

Reflecting on the moment he received the news, Jenkins shared, "I was unsure how to process it initially. It felt like I was detached from my body. I sat there for a few minutes, feeling at a loss for how to respond."

As time has gone by, Jenkins shared that the situation has become increasingly difficult to accept.

He mentioned, "Being back home this week at Raleigh Country Club brings back memories of our high school days and the times we spent here. It's tough to come to terms with the fact that he's no longer with us. It's something you have to come to grips with."

Jenkins hopes Murray — who was very candid about his mental health journey over the years — will be remembered for more than just his admitted struggles. 

Jenkins believes that despite the well-documented troubles, the positive impact Murray had on people and his passion for the game left a lasting impression. He mentions that Murray's ability to overcome his demons and still have a successful career and life made a significant difference in the lives of those around him.

Despite the challenges, Jenkins finds some comfort in the hope that Murray has finally found peace in his resting place.

Jenkins fondly remembered his late friend, saying, "He left a mark here in Raleigh everyone will remember, that’s for sure." Although he will be greatly missed, Jenkins finds solace in knowing that his friend is now at peace.

If you or someone you know is going through a tough time or facing a crisis, remember that help is always available. You can call or text 988 or chat at 988lifeline.org for support.

Editor's P/S:

The article highlights the tragic loss of Grayson Murray, a talented golfer who passed away by suicide at the age of 30. His former teammate and friend, Carter Jenkins, shared his grief and memories of their last conversation, where Murray had spoken about his upcoming participation in major golf tournaments. Jenkins is now preparing to play in a tournament at Raleigh Country Club, where their high school team used to play, and is struggling to come to terms with Murray's absence.

Jenkins emphasizes that Murray should be remembered not only for his struggles with mental health but also for his positive impact on others and his passion for golf. He hopes that Murray's story will raise awareness about the importance of seeking help when facing mental health challenges. The article concludes with a reminder that support is available for those in crisis through the 988 Lifeline.