Demi Lovato has experienced a rollercoaster in her dating life and has now learned to be cautious about letting people into her heart.
Her most well-known relationships with Joe Jonas and Wilmer Valderrama both ended in heartache, but Lovato eventually found her way. She crossed paths with Valderrama in 2010, not long after her break-up with Jonas, and they swiftly developed deep feelings for each other. Even during her toughest times, Valderrama remained Lovato’s source of strength, despite the age difference between them.
Later on, Lovato began a relationship with actor Max Ehrich, who proposed in 2020. However, by the end of that year, they had ended their relationship. In August 2022, Lovato found love once again with musician Jordan Lutes, and they became engaged in December 2023.
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Demi Lovato's Complete Dating History: From Joe Jonas to Wilmer Valderrama
Demi Lovato has experienced both highs and lows in her romantic life, leading her to be cautious with her heart. She faced heartbreak in her highly publicized relationships with Joe Jonas and Wilmer Valderrama, but managed to move forward. Lovato crossed paths with Valderrama in 2010, following her breakup with Jonas, and the two quickly developed strong feelings for each other. Even during difficult times, Valderrama remained a pillar of support for Lovato, despite their age difference.
After ending things with Max Ehrich in 2020, Lovato found love again with musician Jordan Lutes in August 2022. Their engagement was announced in December 2023.
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Cody Linley
Young love! In 2008, the Hannah Montana star went on a date with Lovato– but it didn't end the way they'd hoped. "I was supposed to pick up Demi around 7 p.m., but I didn't get to pick her up until like 9. I had an audition in downtown Hollywood, and after my audition, my car broke down in the worst place," Linley shared with Seventeen at the time. "It was really the most up and down night of my life."
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Trace Cyrus
Prior to beginning a relationship with Brenda Song, the Metro Station musician was involved with Lovato for "several months" in 2009. During that time, the two singers struggled to overcome their four-year age difference, ultimately leading to their separation in July 2009.
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Joe Jonas
The confirmation of their "perfect" relationship to Access Hollywood in March 2010 sent Disney fans into a frenzy. Despite their breakup three months later, the DNCE frontman insisted the decision was mutual. "When I met Demi, I knew right away that our friendship was really strong," he told Teen Vogue at the time. "I don't want to lose that ever." The two remained close through the years, with Lovato even congratulating her ex on his engagement to Sophie Turner in 2017.
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Wilmer Valderrama
Lovato first crossed paths with the That '70s Show actor at the age of 17, and their romantic relationship began a year later. Despite some challenges along the way, the couple parted ways in 2016 after being together for six years. "I think it was love at first sight," Lovato reflected in her 2017 documentary, Simply Complicated. "We connected on a level that I've never connected with anybody before. He was just my rock, my everything."
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Luke Rockhold
Shortly after ending her relationship with Valderrama, the Sonny With a Chance alum started "spending time together and getting involved" with the UFC fighter. "They're both finding it enjoyable and making the most of it," a source explained in September 2016. The couple's romance died down a few months later.
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Guilherme Vasconcelos
Lovato began a relationship with another professional fighter, Guilherme "Bomba" Vasconcelos, whom she met at Unbreakable Performance fitness center in West Hollywood. According to Us, the couple "hooked up" in the summer of 2016, and although it was not serious at first, they rekindled their romance the following January. They were together for almost five months before ultimately splitting up in May 2017.
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Henry Levy
The Enfants Riches Déprimé founder was first linked to the "Anyone" singer in November 2018 after they were seen holding hands and grabbing sushi in Beverly Hills. A source revealed the next month that Lovato was "totally head over heels" with Levy, who made her feel "safe" and "not judged," since he was also sober. The duo called it quits in March 2019 after four months together.
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Mike Johnson
Lovato expressed her thoughts on the Bachelorette alum during his time vying for Hannah Brown's affection on season 15 of the ABC dating show. Reports verified in September 2019 that the two were "casually dating" — however, their relationship was described as "not very serious." Just one month later, they decided to "take a step back" from their short-lived romance.
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Austin Wilson
The model and the Disney alum went public with their relationship on Instagram in November 2019, but sadly decided to part ways after a brief period. Prior to their breakup, a source revealed to Us that they were "both positive forces in each other's lives" as they navigated their journeys to sobriety.
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Max Ehrich
In March 2020, it was confirmed that the "Skyscraper" singer had started a relationship with the Young and the Restless actor after breaking up with Wilson. The two had been flirting on social media for weeks before a source revealed that they were "getting serious" while isolating together. According to an insider, the quarantine had brought them closer and they were happy together, with Ehrich being described as "a really nice guy." However, in September, a source disclosed to Us that Ehrich and Lovato had ended their relationship after a short engagement.
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Jordan Lutes
In August 2022, Us confirmed that Lovato was "really happy" in a new relationship with a fellow musician. Lutes proposed one year later in December 2023.