Alexa PenaVega Opens Up About the Impact of Daughter Indy's Stillbirth on Her Health

Alexa PenaVega got emotional while sharing an update on her family after the stillbirth

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Alexa PenaVega opened up about the toll that experiencing a stillbirth took on her mental and physical health.

In an emotional Instagram video on Wednesday, May 15, the 35-year-old actress shared, “This season, I have learned so much about pain with purpose. Losing Indy was very hard, and then right after losing her, my health declined a lot, and nobody could figure out what was wrong. It was a very hard season for all of us to navigate, but I don’t think I’ve ever surrendered in this way to God in my life.”

Leaning into her faith, PenaVega prayed for the pain to have a purpose. She asked God to use the pain to either remove something from her body or to help her process her emotions. She believed that no pain should be wasted.

Alexa also mentioned that her family with husband Carlos PenaVega has become stronger despite their emotional loss. She expressed that her faith, marriage, and life have all become stronger. Even though their daughter did not take a breath on Earth, Alexa felt that her life had a purpose. (Alexa and Carlos, 34, have sons Ocean, 7, and Kingston, 4, and daughter Rio, 2.)

In a recent video, Alexa shared with fans that she and her family are doing well despite everything. She ended the clip by expressing gratitude for her fans, acknowledging that the upcoming season may bring a mix of emotions. Alexa asked for continued prayers and support, stating that they are relying on peace to guide them through.

Alexa and Carlos, who got married in 2014, announced in November 2023 that they were expecting their fourth child. Unfortunately, Alexa experienced a partial placental abruption in March, leading to a pregnancy loss.

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"Our daughter 'Indy' was born peacefully on April 15," the couple shared in a heartfelt Instagram post. "Although it has been a difficult journey, we have also found moments of peace amidst the pain."

They added, "Indy Rex PenaVega, you have brought so much joy into our lives. You have connected us with a community we have always yearned for. We are excited to see the positive impact you will have on others."

Carlos previously shared with us his thoughts on the challenges of pregnancy for both partners. He emphasized the impact it has on the husband, mentioning how the wife's absence during those nine months can be tough. Even after the pregnancy, there is still a period of adjustment for both partners.

Alexa echoed her husband's sentiments, highlighting the sacrifices that husbands also have to make during pregnancy. She emphasized the importance of acknowledging and appreciating the efforts and sacrifices made by husbands during this time.

Editor's P/S:

Alexa PenaVega's experience with stillbirth and its profound impact on her physical and mental well-being is a heartbreaking reminder of the devastating toll such a loss can take. Her vulnerability in sharing her story highlights the importance of addressing the emotional and physical challenges that accompany pregnancy loss. PenaVega's journey of faith and resilience serves as an inspiration, as she found solace and strength in her beliefs.

The article also sheds light on the lesser-known struggles faced by husbands during pregnancy and the postpartum period. Carlos PenaVega's perspective brings attention to the emotional toll and sacrifices that partners endure, emphasizing the need for support and understanding. By sharing their experiences, the PenaVegas not only raise awareness about pregnancy loss but also foster a sense of community and support for those navigating similar challenges.