Lessons from Beyonce and Jay-Z on Raising Blue Ivy, Sir, and Rumi

Beyoncé and Jay-Z are known for their adoration of their family of five. The couple has openly spoken about their love for their three children since becoming parents. Their first child, Blue Ivy, was born in 2012 and later became a big sister to twins Sir and Rumi, who arrived five years later.

According to an exclusive source in June 2019, the couple is known for involving their children in almost everything they do. While they do have nannies and assistants to help, Beyoncé and Jay-Z prefer to bring their kids along with them whenever possible. Blue, the eldest, is a constant companion to Beyoncé, even during work engagements. As for the twins, they are growing up and Beyoncé has been taking them out more often. The source also noted that the family is known for being close-knit and that Jay-Z takes on a lot of daddy duties, including taking Blue to school.

Beyoncé's approach to disciplining her children doesn't involve "spankings," according to Tina Knowles Lawson, the singer's mother. Instead, Beyoncé prefers to have conversations and reason with her kids, as the fashion designer shared exclusively with Us in June 2019. It seems that Beyoncé has adopted a similar parenting style to her mother's.

"Mathew Knowles shared exclusive insights with Us in May 2020 about the unique personalities of Blue, Sir, and Rumi, the children of Queen B. According to the author of Destiny’s Child: The Untold Story, Blue Ivy is a remarkable child who resembles her mother Beyoncé in many ways. Sir, on the other hand, prefers to have his own space and keep to himself. Meanwhile, Rumi is reminiscent of Mathew's own daughter, Solange Knowles."

Mathew, the father of Beyoncé and Solange, believes that their eldest child has already shown a strong inclination towards following in their musical footsteps. According to him, all three of his daughters possess a deep passion for music, something that he believes is crucial for success in any field. He encourages his children to pursue their passions and work hard towards achieving their goals, just like he did. Beyoncé and Jay-Z have also shared their thoughts on raising their children, and their words are nothing short of heartwarming.

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Beyonce and Jay-Z's Best Parenting Quotes About Raising Blue Ivy, Sir and Rumi

An inside look into the famous family of five! Beyoncé and Jay-Z have been gushing about their three kids since becoming parents.

According to an insider who spoke exclusively to We in June 2019, Jay-Z and Beyoncé are very hands-on parents and prefer to bring their children along with them to most places. Although they do have nannies and assistants to help out, the couple tries to do everything with their trio - Blue Ivy and twins Sir and Rumi. Beyoncé even brings Blue along with her when she's working, and as the twins get older, she's been taking them out more as well.

The family was described as "tight-knit" by the source, who also mentioned that Jay-Z takes an active role in parenting by accompanying Blue to school and performing other duties. Beyoncé's mother, Tina Knowles Lawson, shared with Us in June 2019 that she does not believe in using "spankings" as a form of discipline for her children.

"She has a great way of communicating and reasoning with children," revealed the fashion designer to Us, adding, "I must say, she's got my parenting style down pat!" Meanwhile, Beyoncé's father, Mathew Knowles, shared exclusively with Us in May 2020 about the unique personalities of Blue, Sir, and Rumi.

Mathew Knowles, the author of Destiny's Child: The Untold Story, expressed to Us that Blue Ivy reminds him so much of Beyoncé and Sir prefers to have his own world. He also noted that Rumi reminds him of his daughter, Solange Knowles. Mathew believes that Blue Ivy has already shown her interest in following in her parents' musical footsteps, just like Solange and Beyoncé did when they were growing up. He emphasizes the importance of finding one's passion and putting in the work ethic to achieve success.

Keep scrolling to see the sweet things Beyoncé and Jay-Z have said over the years about bringing up their brood.

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Doting Dad

"Despite the inevitable ups and downs of parenting and the mistakes that come with it, the ultimate reward is simply being present," shared the first-time father with GQ back in 2011. "It's not all about providing for your child, as that alone does not equate to love. What truly matters is showing up and being there for them."

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Diaper Duty

"We both share the responsibility of changing diapers," said Beyoncé in an interview with Anderson Cooper. "Jay-Z is a very good father and I love every moment of changing diapers. It's a beautiful experience."

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Perfect Pregnancy

"Being pregnant is like experiencing a profound love that words cannot describe," she expressed in the Life Is But a Dream documentary on HBO in 2013. "It's an overwhelming feeling of joy and openness that makes you want to shout out to the world about the miracle growing inside you."

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Family Affair

Beyoncé shared with Vogue that during her childbirth, her "family and closest people" were present, creating a supportive and safe environment for her to fully embrace the experience. She expressed that all her worries and fears dissipated in that room, allowing her to fully appreciate each contraction and making it the most incredible day of her life.

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Body Positive

The actress referred to Blue as her "best friend" and shared with the outlet how she has gained a deeper appreciation for the power of her body after giving birth. She expressed feeling more confident about herself, regardless of her weight, and has embraced her femininity and sensuality with no shame.

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Baby Babbling

"Every morning, I wake up to the sight of her face, and it's the most wonderful feeling in the world," said the "Crazy in Love" performer while discussing her Super Bowl performance in 2013. As Blue begins to utter her first words, I am constantly amazed by the wonders of parenthood. Witnessing her learn and discover new things every day is an unparalleled joy in my life."

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Mini Groupie

"She brings me the greatest joy as she is my biggest fan. Even if the Magna Carta [album] did not sell, the fact that she loves it so much is genuine and honest. It’s not a cliché, I mean it. When she says, ‘Daddy song, more, Daddy,’ it just makes me happy. She doesn’t know that it makes me happy, but she just wants to hear it."

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Touching Tribute

In his 2014 Grammy acceptance speech, he told his daughter: “Look, Daddy got a gold sippy cup for you!"

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Great Goals

“I just want my child to be happy and healthy and have the opportunity to realize her dreams,” Beyoncé told Elle in 2016.

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Working Mom

"I find work-life balance to be the most challenging aspect of my life," she shared with Elle in 2019. "Juggling my responsibilities as a mother, such as dropping off Blue at school, taking Rumi and Sir to their extracurricular activities, and spending quality time with my husband on date nights, while keeping up with my duties as a CEO, can be stressful."

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The More, The Merrier

"I desire to have more children," revealed the Lion King star during an appearance on Good Morning America. "My daughter would benefit from having a sibling. I adore being a big sister and am fiercely protective. My main concern is ensuring that she has a healthy, secure, and normal life. She is my top priority, and everything else comes after that. Life has changed significantly, and I am grateful that I am still able to pursue my passion while also having a more significant purpose, which is being her mother."

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Sweet Shout-Out

Beyoncé paid tribute to her son, Sir Carter, in her July 2020 visual album, Black Is King. In a heartfelt message, she dedicated the album to him and all the sons and daughters out there, saying that the sun and the moon sow for them and they are the keys to the kingdom.

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Alone Time

"I made a conscious effort to have five minutes of alone time in the bathtub every day," shared the artist in an Ivy Park x Adidas video released in October 2020. Despite my efforts, it remained a challenge as I could still hear my kids calling out for me, "Mommy! Mommy!"

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Quarantine Confession

"I relish the moments I spend with my loved ones, and my current objective is to decelerate and eliminate sources of stress from my life," shared Beyoncé with British Vogue in October 2020. "I have dedicated considerable time to building my legacy and representing my culture in the most authentic manner possible. However, now I am granting myself the freedom to concentrate on my own happiness."

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Happy Holidays

"We have a lot of Christmas traditions in my family," the singer shared. "We love to decorate cookies and ornaments, and we even have a collection of ornaments filled with everyone's favorite things. As we decorate, we always have Christmas music playing in the background. My little one, Blue, always makes sure to leave milk and cookies out for Santa, and she writes him the most beautiful letters. On Christmas morning, we wake up early and open presents before having a big lunch with our entire family. I absolutely love seeing the joy and wonder in the children's eyes on Christmas morning; it takes me back to my own childhood."

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Proud Parent

"I am humbled and grateful for this Grammy award," Beyoncé expressed in her acceptance speech at the March 2021 ceremony, knowing that her two daughters and son were watching. She then congratulated her daughter Blue for winning a Grammy that night and expressed immense pride in all her children, referring to them as her babies. "I am honored to be your mommy, all of your mommies," she said, keeping

in her thoughts.

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Distinctive Dad

Jay-Z and his wife prioritize their children's desires and aspirations, recognizing that as parents, they are simply guides. In an interview with The Sunday Times in April 2021, the rapper stated, "We're attentive to who they want to be. It’s easy for us, as human beings, to want our children to do certain things, but we have no idea."

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Major Motivator

Jay-Z revealed in a recent interview with LeBron James that fatherhood has had a profound impact on him, stating that it has been a “very grounding thing.” He went on to explain that he didn't even know how to swim until his daughter Blue was born, and that this realization was a metaphor for their relationship. Jay-Z now understands the importance of being able to protect his daughter, both in and out of the water, and he sees learning how to swim as the beginning of their relationship.

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Birthday Wishes

"What's better than 1 gift... 2,” Beyoncé wrote via Instagram while celebrating her twins’ fourth year. "Happy birthday Rumi & Sir."

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Like Mother, Like Daughters

After creating a hemp and honey farm, Beyoncé shared with Harper's Bazaar in August 2021 that she wants to set a healthy example of self-care for her children, Blue and Rumi. She expressed her joy as a mother when she discovered Blue taking time for herself in the bath with her eyes closed, using blends that Beyoncé had created for her to decompress and find peace.

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Timing Is Everything

"Time is our most valuable resource, and it's up to us to use it wisely," Jay-Z emphasized in a recent episode of Hart to Heart. He reflected on how becoming a parent transformed his approach to time management, noting that he used to be careless with his schedule. "I was all over the place, without a clear sense of purpose," he admitted. "But when you have children, you realize that every moment you spend away from them is a moment you can never get back. That changes everything. You start to think more intentionally about how you're spending your time, and what really matters."

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'So Proud'

Beyoncé expressed her admiration for her eldest daughter in May 2023 after Blue Ivy's impressive performance during the Paris leg of the "Daddy Lessons" singer's Renaissance tour. The Grammy winner took to Instagram to share a slideshow of Blue on stage, and wrote a heartfelt message that read, "My beautiful first born, I'm so proud and grateful to be your mother. You bring us so much happiness, my sweet angel."