Amy Robach and T.J. Holmes Discuss Marriage Plans Without a Final Decision

Amy Robach and TJ Holmes Have Talked About Marriage but Havent Decided Yet

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Amy Robach and T.J. Holmes have discussed the idea of getting married but have not made a final decision on whether they want to take the big step.

In a recent episode of their podcast, "Amy & T.J.," which aired on Sunday, April 21, the former Good Morning America coanchors shared their thoughts on the advantages and disadvantages of getting married.

Robach, 51, mentioned that they are still in the process of determining the level of commitment, whether it is legally binding or not. The decision is still being discussed. However, mentally and emotionally, they have both agreed to commit to each other. The aspect of marriage is something they have not yet resolved.

Holmes, 46, appeared puzzled by his girlfriend's statement. He asked for clarification by questioning, "What do you mean by 'We haven't figured it out?' Are you saying you haven't made a decision yet?"

"I agree," Robach said. "I've told you before, and I think you've told me too, that I want to spend the rest of my life with you. When the time is right, I would like us to live together. It doesn't have to happen right away, but eventually, I see us living together."

Amy Robach and TJ Holmes Have Talked About Marriage but Havent Decided Yet

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Robach continued, “I want a life partner. I want someone who is with me. Yeah, I like spending the night with you and waking up with you.”

Holmes asked, "What is a life partner without a legal binding agreement? Can you have a life partner without that?"

Robach mentioned Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell as an example, who have been together since 1983 without making their relationship legal. She said, "But I've always been in awe of the fact that every day they wake up and they choose to be together, there's no legal binding document that says they have to be together."

Marriage can sometimes give a false sense of security, making it harder to end a relationship. When tough times come or when something really difficult happens, it can be tempting to walk away if there are no legal ties binding you together. While this is not the reason to stay with someone, the idea of legal commitment can create a feeling of security, making it more challenging to leave.

Holmes interrupted, expressing surprise at the idea. He pointed out that staying in a relationship because it's difficult to leave seems like the opposite of what you would want. It's not ideal to be with someone simply because it's hard to break away from them.

Robach admitted that she sometimes defaults to thinking of her partner as her husband, even though she doesn't want their relationship to be defined that way. She acknowledged that it feels official and real to refer to him as her husband, even though they both know it's not necessarily the case.

In contrast, Holmes expressed his belief that not getting married can actually be a stronger commitment because it means you have the freedom to walk away at any time.

Which celebrity couple are you excited to see get engaged next? Their relationship became public in late 2022 when they were seen together in New York City. At that time, they had not announced any separation from their current partners.

Holmes and Marilee Fiebig ended their 12-year marriage in November through divorce proceedings. Around the same time, Robach also ended her 12-year marriage with Andrew Shue. Following the controversy, both Holmes and Robach were removed from GMA3. They then started their podcast together in December 2023.

Editor's P/S:

T.J. Holmes's discussion about marriage reveals their complex views on commitment and the nature of relationships. While Robach values the emotional bond and companionship of a life partner, Holmes prioritizes the freedom and choice that comes with not being legally bound. Their contrasting perspectives highlight the diverse ways in which individuals approach long-term relationships.

The couple's openness to discussing their relationship publicly also sheds light on the evolving societal attitudes towards marriage. Once considered the cornerstone of romantic partnerships, marriage is increasingly seen as a personal choice rather than an obligation. Robach and Holmes's decision to prioritize their own happiness and fulfillment, even if it means foregoing traditional relationship structures, reflects the changing landscape of modern relationships.