Unforgettable Friendship Moments Shared by Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez throughout the Years
Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez's heartwarming bond unfolds through the years Witness their cherished friendship moments from 2008 to 2023, showcasing their enduring connection and unbreakable support
Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez have maintained a close friendship for over ten years, since originally meeting in 2008 on a double date with Joe Jonas and Nick Jonas.
"We even went on dates with the Jonas Brothers together! It was so funny," Gomez remembered in a 2017 radio interview. "It was awesome because [Taylor] was the girl with the big curly hair, all the bracelets, and cowboy boots. And I was just starting out, and we just connected."
While neither Swift nor Gomez ended up in long-term relationships with Joe or Nick, they did find a supportive best friend in each other. The two women often publicly celebrate each other's career successes and shut down any negativity or disagreements they encounter.
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Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez's Sweetest Friendship Moments Over the Years
Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez have maintained a strong and lasting friendship for over ten years. They first met in 2008 while on a double date with Joe Jonas and Nick Jonas.
"We once went on dates with the Jonas Brothers at the same time! It was so funny," Gomez reminisced in a radio interview in 2017. "It was incredible, Taylor was the girl with the big curly hair, lots of bracelets, and cowboy boots. I was still on the rise, and we just connected."
Although neither Swift nor Gomez ended up in lasting relationships with Joe or Nick, they found a supportive best friend in each other. The two women often cheer each other on for their career successes and have each other's backs when facing trolls or feuds.
Scroll down to relive Gomez and Swift's sweetest friendship moments:
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2023
"Happy birthday to the goddess that is @taylorswift," Gomez wrote via Instagram in December 2023. "I love you."
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2023
Gomez shared waterfront selfies with Swift on her Instagram account in September 2023, days after the VMAs, quoting lyrics from Saweetie and Doja Cat's "Best Friend" to express their close friendship.
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2023
At the 2023 MTV Video Music Awards, Swift and Gomez exuded elegance as they embraced each other. Swift wowed in a black Versace gown with an asymmetrical neckline, while Gomez shined in a stunning ruby Oscar de la Renta dress.
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2023
The "Lose You to Love Me" singer brought her little sister Gracie to Swift's Eras Tour in March. The pair showed their support by dressing in their favorite Swiftie eras. Gomez went as Folklore, while Gracie, who received a hat from the "All Too Well" artist at the show, rocked a purple Speak Now dress and ponytail.
"Thank you to my best friend for welcoming me and my sister into your magical, euphoric, and unique world. I'm proud to call you my friend! I love you now and forever," wrote the Only Murders in the Building actress on Instagram, sharing photos from the memorable night.
Months later, Gomez released her first new song in two years, titled "Single Soon." Swift, on the other hand, took to social media to commend the new record.
“When [your] bestie is the bestest,” the Midnights singer wrote via her Instagram Story in August. “Will be dancing to this forever methinks.”
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2022
Gomez opened up about her relationship with Swift while reflecting on her Hollywood experience, telling Rolling Stone, "I never quite fit in with the popular crowd of celebrity girls. My only real friend in the industry is Taylor, so I remember feeling like I didn't belong. I felt the presence of everyone around me living their lives to the fullest. I had this status, and I was really happy, but … was I? Do these materialistic things bring me happiness? I just didn't like who I was, because I didn't know who I was."
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2021
The Texas native cheered Swift on backstage during her Saturday Night Live performance.
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2020
The duo provided a peek into their ten-year friendship after deciding to keep their personal lives more private as they matured.
"There's always been this sisterhood quality, and I don't say that lightly," Swift shared with WSJ. Magazine about her close friend. "Since the day I met her, I knew I would always support her. I have the ability to forgive those who have hurt me in my life. But I'm not sure I could forgive someone who hurts her."
Gomez commended the Amsterdam star for supporting her through personal challenges and praised their close friendship. "There's a lot about my friendship with Taylor that people aren't aware of because we don't feel the need to share everything we do," she explained. "She has been there for me in ways I never expected, flying in when I was hurt or going through family issues. Over the years, she has proven to be one of my closest friends. We may not always see eye to eye, but we have a deep respect for each other."
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2019
According to Gomez, her close friend is the first person who hears her new music.
During a radio interview, she shared the experience of showing the videos for 'Lose You to Love Me' and 'Look at Her Now' to her friend and her parents. They gathered on the couch with the lights turned down, and Gomez found it heartwarming to see her friend's mom and Taylor's reaction. Gomez reminisced about when Taylor played her 'Fearless' before its release, and expressed gratitude for their enduring friendship and the joy of sharing their successes.
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2017
Taylor Swift received a heartfelt message from the Spring Breakers star, who expressed gratitude for Swift's ability to articulate thoughts that others can't. The star also praised Swift for giving a voice to the world that is authentic and inspiring, and for having a fiercely bold and wild heart.
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2015
"After almost 8 years of being friends, I am excited to share with our children that we actually had the opportunity to perform in front of thousands of incredibly beautiful people together. It happened twice!" Gomez shared on Instagram after her memorable performance at Swift's concert in Los Angeles. "Love you Tay. #bestnightEVER #whatISlife."
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2014
After the Met Gala, Gomez shared a sneak peek of their night out, stating, "And sometimes you just want to be yourself with someone who knows all your secrets." She posted an Instagram clip of her and Swift strolling around in their stunning gowns.
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2015
The Wizards of Waverly Place alum appeared in Swift's "Bad Blood" music video.
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2013
"Happy 21st birthday to my friend, and the closest thing I've ever had to a sister, @selenagomez!!" Swift gushed via Instagram.
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2011
Gomez joined Swift at Madison Square Garden for the Miss Americana star's concert.
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2009
In an interview with Seventeen, the singer of "Same Old Love" shared that Swift was her trusted confidante for relationship guidance.
"She's always there for me," she said. "Any problem I have, Taylor has been through it and gives the best advice. I admire Taylor's belief in true love and soul mates. She's older than me, so her insight is invaluable. Thanks to her, I still believe in love. We talk constantly."
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2008
The duo formed a bond after they met on a double date. That same year, the "Exile" performer appeared on the red carpet for the premiere of Gomez's movie Another Cinderella Story.
