Regina King opens up about motherhood in heartfelt TV interview
Regina King shares her emotional journey as a mother in a touching television interview, reflecting on the loss of her beloved son and the profound impact motherhood has had on her life.
Editor’s Note: If you or someone you know is facing suicidal thoughts or mental health issues, reach out to the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 to speak with a trained counselor, or visit their website.
Regina King treasures her most beloved role as a mother.
King recently spoke with "Good Morning America" in her first interview since the tragic death of her 26-year-old son, Ian Alexander Jr., who died by suicide in January 2022.
During the interview, King shared that she has dedicated her upcoming film, "Shirley," which is about activist and politician Shirley Chisholm, to her son. She also mentioned that a lot has changed in her life since his passing.
"I've changed a lot since January 19, 2022, when my son passed away," King shared with Robin Roberts on "GMA." "Grief is a journey. I've come to realize that grief is a way to show love when there's nowhere for it to go."
She expressed her desire to celebrate Ian for all that he was, choosing to talk about him in the present tense because "he is always by my side."
King mentioned that even though Ian brought joy and happiness to her and those around him, her son had difficulty finding it within himself.
She explained that when it comes to depression, people often have preconceived notions about how it should appear, expecting it to be visibly burdensome.
Regina King and Ian Alexander Jr. in 2017.
Regina King and Ian Alexander Jr. in 2017.
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She paused and began to shed tears.
"It's been tough not being able to fully process Ian's decision," King expressed. "I respect and understand his choice to not want to be here anymore. It's difficult for others to comprehend since they didn't walk in Ian's shoes."
King mentioned that she is still going through the grieving process.
"I share this grief with everyone, but no one else is Ian's mom, you know? It's only me," she expressed. "The sadness will never leave. It will always be with me."
The Oscar-winning actress frequently brought Ian to events throughout the years. In a touching tribute, she wore orange, his favorite color, during her appearance at the recent Academy Awards.
She expressed, "Being Ian's mom is my favorite thing about myself. I say this with a mix of emotions - a smile, tears, and deep respect for the journey."
Editor's P/S:
Regina King's poignant interview reveals the profound impact of losing a child to suicide. Her words remind us that grief is a complex and deeply personal journey, and that there is no right or wrong way to experience it. King's decision to dedicate her upcoming film to her son is a testament to the love and legacy he left behind, while her choice to speak about him in the present tense highlights the enduring bond they shared. Her message is a powerful reminder that even in the darkest of times, love can find its way through.
King's comments also shed light on the often-misunderstood nature of depression. She emphasizes that it can manifest in ways that are not always visible, and that it is essential to respect an individual's choice to end their own life. Her words serve as a call to action for greater awareness and support for those struggling with mental health issues, and a reminder that we all have a role to play in creating a more understanding and compassionate world.
