Summary
The depiction of George Cooper Sr. in Young Sheldon presents him as a misunderstood and sympathetic character, offering an explanation for his infidelity towards Mary, despite his negative portrayal on The Big Bang Theory.The show proposes that George's decision to cheat stemmed from the mistreatment and lack of appreciation he experienced within his own family, which ultimately drove him to seek fulfillment outside of his marriage.
Young Sheldon strives to justify George Cooper Sr.'s (Lance Barber) deceitful actions and presents his belief that he is sparing his wife from distress, further complicating the ethical implications surrounding his behavior.
In the TV series CBS' Young Sheldon, the audience is left questioning the motives behind George Cooper Sr.'s (Lance Barber) decision to cheat on Mary. This is because, in The Big Bang Theory, adult Sheldon (Jim Parsons) and his mother often made jokes at George's expense, portraying him as an inadequate and lazy father. Adding to the complexity, Sheldon even exposed his father's affair, causing tension within their family. Although it is evident that Sheldon's parents ultimately divorce, Young Sheldon challenges viewers' disapproval of George by presenting a more nuanced perspective.
How Young Sheldon Tried To Make Cheating George The Victim
The revelation on TBBT occurred when he was confiding in Penny (Kaley Cuoco) about how he unintentionally walked in on his parents' affair, discovering his dad's infidelity. Sadly, just a year later, George passed away due to a sudden heart attack. The foundation for this revelation was laid in the season 4 finale of Young Sheldon, where George was approached by his newly-single neighbor, Brenda Sparks (Melissa Peterman), who expressed her interest in him. However, their potential relationship took a backseat when George experienced a health emergency and had to be rushed to the hospital. Despite this, George and Brenda remained in contact, and it became evident that there was an undeniable attraction between them, which may have played a role in George's eventual cheating scandal on Young Sheldon.
In the fifth episode of season 5 of Young Sheldon titled "Stuffed Animals and A Sweet Southern Syzygy," the portrayal of the Cooper patriarch showcases his efforts as a dedicated father who strives to make his children happy. However, his unintended interference in Missy Cooper's (Raegan Revord) romantic life backfires, leading her to harshly rebuke her father and hold him accountable for her embarrassment. Rather than defending himself and refusing to tolerate her disrespect, George retreats, feeling defeated. This pivotal moment highlights the children's lack of gratitude towards their father, which ultimately influences his decision to engage in infidelity. Adult Sheldon's narration acknowledges this significant aspect.
Did Season 6 Further Try To Justify George's Cheating?
:This point was further emphasized when George's heartwarming conversation with Billy Sparks took place after he was dumped by Missy. Afterwards, the Cooper patriarch made a point to check up on Brenda's son, showing his genuine concern. Unlike his own daughter, Billy was open to George's advice on handling heartbreak, while Brenda observed George with admiration in her eyes. Given that Young Sheldon consistently witnesses George being disregarded and disrespected at home, it becomes clear that Sheldon's father turned to infidelity as a means to seek fulfillment and validation elsewhere. This attempt to justify his unfaithfulness stems from his family's mistreatment despite all his efforts.
The events in Young Sheldon's sixth season did little to improve the situation. In fact, the show delved further into the reasons behind Sheldon's father's infidelity. It became apparent that the affair had possibly been going on for some time, though it remained hidden from public view. Despite the shocking discovery, Sheldon and George managed to maintain a strained relationship. There was a significant moment when George confessed to his son that sometimes it is acceptable to withhold the truth in order to spare someone's feelings. This admission sheds light on his potential justifications for not confessing his betrayal to his wife, as he believed he was protecting her from heartache.
George's actions become even more troubling when he convinces himself that he is justified, all while betraying his wife. Throughout season 6, it becomes increasingly evident that George is miserable in his marriage and feels trapped in his family life. To add to his discontent, his relationship with Mary deteriorates further, resulting in less time spent together and an increasing realization that he may deserve better.
Additionally, season 6 introduces a new twist to George's infidelity. Mary shares her suspicions with Brenda, believing that George is having an affair with her. However, Brenda vehemently denies any involvement with Mary's husband, leading to a reconciliation between the two women. Considering the timeline, it appears that Sheldon will soon discover his father's indiscretions, raising the possibility of another woman being involved. While George may feel entitled to something better, Young Sheldon has a long way to go in portraying him as negatively as Sheldon sees him in The Big Bang Theory.
The Big Bang Theory Universe Can Be Super Problematic
Both Young Sheldon and The Big Bang Theory have been criticized for their portrayal of female characters. The way George's cheating scandal is discussed in The Big Bang Theory is very different from how it is portrayed in Young Sheldon. However, TBBT has often been accused of being overtly sexist, especially in its early seasons. It appears that Young Sheldon is repeating the same mistakes as its parent show regarding George's infidelity. The character Howard Wolowitz (played by Simon Helberg) in TBBT is the main offender, but he undergoes character development when he becomes a father, gradually shedding his perversion. At the beginning, Howard embodied the male gaze.
The Big Bang Theory used the "nerd" stereotype to justify its sexist tendencies, suggesting that Leonard and his friends didn't know better when they were misogynistic. The female characters on the show often accepted and even supported the degrading behavior of the male characters. This changed when Bernadette (played by Melissa Rauch) started standing up against Howard in later seasons. However, most characters seemed to remain stagnant in terms of personal growth. Considering that Young Sheldon exists within the same problematic universe, it's not surprising that the show would continue the misogynistic narrative by portraying George as the victim in his affair.
George's cheating, as seen in The Big Bang Theory, remains ethically incorrect. However, when Missy scolds him and his evident dejection surfaces following her exaggerated emotional outburst, George becomes more relatable. There is undeniably a discrepancy between The Big Bang Theory and Young Sheldon's portrayal of George. CBS will inevitably have to address and harmonize these significantly diverse iterations of the character. Nevertheless, Sheldon's recollections of his father are inevitably influenced by his own encounters, and the spinoff show diligently endeavors to offer a more comprehensive outlook on George Cooper's unfaithfulness.