Unveiling Chase Stokes' 'Dear Me' Tattoo: Discover the Personal Message Behind His Hand Ink (Exclusive)

Outer Banks star Chase Stokes shared the inspiration behind his latest tattoo.

He explained, "I got ‘Dear me’ tattooed on my hand as a reminder to be kinder to myself. Whenever I catch myself being too harsh, it’s a cue to take it easy."

Stokes, 31, emphasized the importance of self-compassion, stating, “Nobody should treat themselves poorly.”

The actor shared that he deals with imposter syndrome and reminds himself to be kind. He makes self-care a priority in his life.

He mentioned that to relax, he drinks plenty of water, exercises, stays connected with loved ones, and even enjoys spending time on TikTok.

Scroll down to learn more things that fans might not know about Stokes:

1. My go-to cocktail is a dirty martini, extra dirty, or a good glass of red [wine].

Chase Stokes Explains the Meaning Behind His Dear Me Tattoo

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2. My very first car was a 1988 Honda Accord. Despite its flaws, it was filled with love.

3. I decided to get a tattoo that says "Dear me" on my hand. It serves as a gentle reminder to be kind to myself and not be mean. It's important to treat ourselves with respect.

Chase Stokes Explains the Meaning Behind His Dear Me Tattoo

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4. My alternate profession would be unemployed.

5. The food I could eat every day is wings. All of them.

Chase Stokes Explains the Meaning Behind His Dear Me Tattoo

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I've been cooking steak often lately. I have a special marinade that I use, and sometimes I make homemade chimichurri.

My most starstruck moment happened a few years ago when Robert De Niro accidentally stepped on my broken foot. It was definitely a peak moment for me.

8. My favorite book right now is Love Is a Dog from Hell by Charles Bukowski.

9. “Fire and Rain” by James Taylor brings back the best memories.

10. I can juggle — kind of.

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11. To decompress, I drink a ton of water, try to get a good sweat in, call my loved ones and, yes, [go on] TikTok.

12. My favorite shoes are HEY DUDE’s Wally Mids.

13. I love filming in South Carolina [because] Charleston is such a peaceful city. Southern hospitality makes the world go ’round.

Chase Stokes Explains the Meaning Behind His Dear Me Tattoo

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14. During Sunday afternoons, you can find me either at home preparing for the upcoming week or out in the neighborhood with my dogs.

15. The greatest piece of advice I ever got was that in order to truly help others, you must first take care of yourself. It's important to be at peace with yourself before offering help and guidance to others.

16. Dressing up for red carpet events is something I really enjoy. After spending a lot of time in my career getting dirty, sweaty, and covered in blood, it's refreshing to switch things up.

17. Dealing with imposter syndrome is a challenge for me, but it also keeps me motivated and alert.

18. I can’t leave the house without my wallet, keys and ChapStick.

19. When I’m not filming, I love sitting at home. It’s nice to sit, cook, drink a good bottle of wine and be a homebody.

20. My best subject in school was history.

21. On Saturday nights, I’m at one of Charleston’s many restaurants. I love a good weekend dinner. Then I’m in bed before 10:45 P.M.

22. Kelsea Ballerini, my girlfriend, and I don't usually plan to match our outfits, but there was one time at the 2023 MTV VMAs where it looked like we did, even though it was totally coincidental.

23. The best thing about working on Outer Banks is being able to really embody the characters as an actor. After five years of living and breathing these roles, they've become a part of who we are.

24. I collect watches.

25. One movie I could watch over again and again is Die Hard. It’s a sleeper.

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Editor's P/S:

Chase Stokes's candid sharing of his personal struggles and self-care practices offers a relatable and inspiring glimpse into the importance of self-compassion. His tattoo serves as a constant reminder to prioritize his well-being, challenging the societal tendency to be overly critical of oneself. Stokes's emphasis on treating himself with respect highlights the crucial role of self-love in maintaining a healthy and fulfilling life.

The article also provides a glimpse into Stokes's personality and daily routine, revealing his love for classic films, music, and spending time with loved ones. His openness about his struggles with imposter syndrome demonstrates his authenticity and resilience, while his dedication to self-care practices showcases his commitment to personal growth and well-being. Overall, the article paints a portrait of a thoughtful and introspective actor who is mindful of his own mental health and encourages others to prioritize their own.