9. Brooke & Felix - One Tree Hill
One Tree Hill's Brooke and Felix represent a troubling dynamic that no teen should aspire to. Felix's character is marred by his mean-spirited nature, rampant dishonesty, and an egotistical demeanor that includes homophobic behavior, all of which contribute to a toxic environment for a relationship. Initially, his interest in Brooke is purely physical, disregarding the emotional and respectful components that are crucial for a meaningful connection. Brooke, as a character who deserved far better, was subjected to a partner who lacked the capacity for genuine commitment and respect, setting an unhealthy precedent for the show's young viewers.
Brooke & Felix are looking at something off-camera.
8. Jackson & Lydia - Teen Wolf
The relationship between Jackson and Lydia in Teen Wolf escalates beyond toxicity into outright abuse. Jackson's insecurities manifest in damaging ways, primarily through his anger directed at Lydia, which includes yelling and a general lack of respect. This behavior not only undermines the concept of supportive partnerships but also dangerously normalizes emotional and verbal abuse. For a show with a significant teenage audience, such portrayal is particularly concerning as it could influence viewers' perceptions of what is acceptable in a relationship, potentially perpetuating cycles of abuse in their own lives.
Jackson & Lydia are bowling in Teen Wolf.
7. Spencer & Olivia - All American
Despite some redeeming qualities, Spencer and Olivia's relationship in All American is fraught with toxicity. Their romance begins with betrayal, as Spencer cheats on Olivia's best friend with her, creating a web of drama and strained friendships. Olivia's request for Spencer to cover for her after a car accident not only demonstrates a disregard for his future but also highlights the manipulative tendencies present in their relationship. Moreover, Spencer's sacrifices to be part of the Baker family, at times at the expense of his own identity, further illustrate the unhealthy nature of their connection.
Spencer and Olivia having a serious talk in All American
6. Damon & Elena - The Vampire Diaries
The Vampire Diaries' Damon and Elena, while sharing undeniable chemistry, navigate a relationship that is rife with toxicity. Damon's disregard for Elena's autonomy, his habit of making decisions on her behalf, and his willingness to harm those close to her, including breaking her brother's neck, are indicative of a deeply problematic dynamic. This relationship perpetuates the notion that possessiveness and control are synonymous with passion, which is a dangerous message to send to viewers who are still forming their ideas about love and partnerships.
Damon and Elena about to kiss in TVD
5. Finn & Quinn - Glee
Finn and Quinn's relationship in Glee is emblematic of a coupling marred by deceit and infidelity. Quinn's decision to lie about her pregnancy's paternity and convince Finn that he is the father is a profound betrayal that undermines the trust necessary for a healthy relationship. The inclusion of such a storyline in a show aimed at teenagers is irresponsible, as it normalizes deception and the avoidance of accountability, suggesting to viewers that such behavior is a tolerable element of romantic relationships, when in fact it should be condemned.
Finn and Quinn hug on stage in Glee.
4. Justin & Jessica - 13 Reasons Why
13 Reasons Why's portrayal of Justin and Jessica's relationship is deeply disturbing. Justin's failure to intervene during Jessica's assault by his friend, and his subsequent efforts to silence the truth, constitute unforgivable actions within any context, let alone within the confines of a relationship. His protective stance towards his assaulter, at the expense of the person he claims to care about, is a harrowing example of loyalty gone awry. This relationship, by setting a horrific example for the show's teenage viewers, emphasizes the need for shows to address and challenge the normalization of such destructive behaviors.
Justin and Jessica from 13 Reasons Why
3. Jughead & Betty - Riverdale
Riverdale's Jughead and Betty, though a fan-favorite, exhibit a relationship that hinders individual growth due to their overwhelming codependence. Their inability to navigate social lives independently of each other stifles their personal development and prevents the formation of a healthy, balanced partnership. The show's failure to recognize and address this dysfunction perpetuates the misconception that such entanglement is desirable, potentially influencing teens to seek out similarly unhealthy relationships that prioritize drama and dependency over mutual support and individuality.
Betty and Jughead in the Riverdale series finale
2. Brandon & Callie - The Fosters
The Fosters' Brandon and Callie epitomize a relationship built on a foundation of inappropriateness and toxicity. As foster siblings, their romantic involvement not only breaches ethical boundaries but also puts Callie's chance at adoption at risk. The show's decision to romanticize a forbidden relationship within a family setting is particularly troubling, as it may lead viewers to misunderstand the gravity of such situations and the impact they can have on the family dynamic and the well-being of those involved.
Brandon and Callie are sitting and talking.
1. Aria & Ezra - Pretty Little Liars
At the top of our list, Aria and Ezra's relationship from Pretty Little Liars stands out as one of the most problematic relationships in teen drama history. The inherent power imbalance between a student and her teacher is compounded by the lack of repercussions and acknowledgment of the illegality of their relationship. Ezra's additional betrayal in using Aria's experiences for his true crime novel, without her consent, adds another layer of manipulation and deceit. The show's portrayal of their relationship without significant critique or consequence sends a dangerous message about consent, authority, and the romanticization of illegal relationships.
Pretty Little Liars Ezra and Aria