Played by Sarah Hyland, Modern Family's Haley Dunphy has undergone significant transformations throughout the years. Along her journey, she has encountered 10 individuals who have become part of the Haley Dunphy boyfriend circle. Initially, she was an unaware teenager, solely focused on fashion, her social life, and her appearance. However, she gradually transformed into an independent woman who built a successful career for herself. Throughout this process, she experienced relationships with both exceptional partners and others who did not measure up.
Haley was known for her ability to attract male attention and her popularity among guys. Yet, she wasn't always known for making the best choices when it came to romantic partners. Growing up under the watchful eye of the mockumentary cameras, she discovered the importance of prioritizing happiness and love over physical appearance and bad boy attitudes. Her dating history clearly reflects this growth. The men in Haley Dunphy's life were as diverse as she was. She didn't have a specific type, and her love interests on the show served as a testament to her personal development. By the end of the series, Haley found herself married, a mother, and a successful professional, with the help of these men.
Kenny (Jason Mantzoukas)
Haley decides to date an older man to spite her father, which catches Phil's attention. A pair of jeans gifted by Kenny makes Phil liken them to a diaper. Phil refers to Kenny as a "slimy, middle-aged jeans salesman." While fans could perceive this love interest as unserious, her father remains unaware of it.
At the episode's conclusion, Phil grows fed up and chases after Haley in an attempt to prevent her from making a major mistake with Kenny. However, he discovers that she had already ended the relationship on her own. Haley's willingness to date someone to prove a point illustrates her immaturity at that point in the series. Nevertheless, her decision to break up with Kenny before Phil can convince her is also indicative of her developing maturity.
Vincent (Never Seen On Camera)
This ex-convict is the sole boyfriend of Haley Dunphy to be mentioned by name but never shown on camera. Fans are aware of his existence solely because Haley talks about him. She reveals that she refrains from introducing him to her parents due to their disapproval. This is in contrast to her tendency of bringing people home who she knows will annoy her parents. Additionally, it is known that Vincent works at a florist shop.
Haley mentions him in season 6, but their relationship does not progress any further. Considering Haley's popularity, it wouldn't be logical for her to bring every man she dates home. It is possible that there were other relationships that the audience never hears about, making Vincent just a brief occurrence. Since we don't truly get to know him, it is not possible to rank him any higher.
Scott (Adams Hagenbuch)
Scott holds significance for Haley Dunphy as her boyfriend because he prompts her to desire a different kind of partner, detaching her from her usual attraction to "bad boys." In Haley's journey, Scott becomes a pivotal moment where she recognizes that dating is not solely about rebellion and temporary amusement, but can also involve building a future with someone.
In the particular episode, while waiting for Scott's arrival, Haley observes Andy and Phil creating a video for Andy's girlfriend. Initially dismissing it as foolish, she eventually grasps that this is the kind of thoughtful action performed by caring individuals in relationships. Though Haley shares a strong connection with Scott, just as she prepares to enter his car, a realization strikes her. She professes, "You know what? I'd rather go on a date with someone who would brave a blizzard for me and only honks for the troops." The person she is describing is Andy.
Chase (Robbie Amell)
Chase appeared to be a pleasant individual, but Haley sought partners with more depth in terms of personality. Despite the potential for a great connection, various factors prevented it from materializing, with the main factor being Andy. In the episode 'Closet? You'll Love It!', Haley and Chase plan a double date with Andy and his girlfriend. However, Andy's girlfriend fails to show up, leading Haley and Andy to realize that they share a romantic spark.
Chase also played a significant role in Haley's timeline when she finally acknowledges her feelings for Andy. Towards the end of the episode, Andy is hospitalized, and Haley takes the opportunity to confess her emotions to him, believing he is asleep. While Chase is kind and enjoyable to be around, he doesn't align with what Haley desires in a partner for a fulfilling relationship. Haley cannot simply date him as a temporary placeholder.
Ethan (Matt Prokop)
Ethan briefly appeared in season three's 'Disneyland' episode of the show, where the family visited Disneyland. Claire invited him to distract Haley from Dylan, as she believed he would make a good choice for Haley to move on with. Despite initially enjoying their time together on the family vacation, Ethan's presence failed to leave a lasting impression on anyone else. Unfortunately for Ethan, Dylan reemerges, causing Haley to waver between her feelings for Ethan and her desire to be with Dylan. Eventually, Haley decides to go back to Dylan, despite the potential compatibility with Ethan as approved by Claire.
Rainer Shine (Nathan Fillion)
Rainer, a local weatherman, was someone Phil desperately wanted to be friends with. However, this plan backfires when Phil unknowingly sets him up with Haley. Eventually, Phil accepts their relationship upon realizing that Rainer will still be his friend. Despite the significant age difference between Rainer and Haley, they turn out to be a decent match for each other.
Interestingly, the two of them share common interests, such as dedicating a substantial amount of time to their hair routines. However, both Rainer and Haley are accustomed to being the center of attention, which might have caused some challenges for them in the long term. In the episode "Five Minutes" of season eight, Rainer surprises Haley with a marriage proposal. Although she initially accepts, doubts about their future quickly arise for both of them. Haley realizes that she desires different things in life, which Rainer cannot provide. Nevertheless, Rainer remains one of the more likable characters.
Dr. Arvin Fennerman (Chris Geere)
Haley encounters Arvin while sneaking into Alex's class, causing a disruption in his science lesson. Following the incident, Arvin confesses to Haley that he feels a strong connection with her and believes they are destined to marry. In terms of financial stability, Arvin could have provided for Haley without concerns about her living in an unconventional lifestyle, as playfully depicted on the show.
However, for many devoted viewers, the chemistry between Haley and Arvin was lacking. This becomes evident when Haley continues to have feelings for her high school sweetheart, Dylan. While Arvin may possess intelligence and admirable qualities, the real spark exists between Alex and Arvin. Given that Haley had numerous suitors throughout the series, her decision to date Arvin despite knowing Alex's interest in him is considered one of the most disappointing moments between sisters on the show. Additionally, as Alex rarely pursued romantic relationships compared to her sister, this particular relationship was ill-conceived.
Will (Nick Ballard)
Will possesses all the qualities that make him the perfect partner for Haley. As a doctor, he effortlessly ticks all the boxes on her list. His notable appearance can be seen in season 6's 'Grill, Interrupted.' Throughout the episode, Will constantly finds himself witnessing intimate moments between Haley and Andy, but his unyielding trust prevents him from feeling any jealousy. Will even enlists Andy's assistance in crafting a heartfelt card to express his affection for Haley.
Undoubtedly, Will stands out as one of the most remarkable boyfriends that Haley Dunphy encounters in the series. Not only is he kind and intelligent, but he also maintains a secure profession, making him an ideal match. Regrettably, their union comes to an end solely due to the fact that Haley desires a casual relationship, while Will aspires for a more committed and serious attachment. The timing simply wasn't right for Haley to embark on a substantial commitment at that particular juncture.
Dylan Marshall (Reid Ewing)
Dylan may be seen by some as the top choice due to his role as the father of Haley's children and her husband, but he wasn't always the ideal match for her. Claire never approved of him and throughout the entire series, she never fully accepted him. However, Phil considers him a close friend.
Dylan and Haley had an on-again, off-again relationship throughout the show. They started dating in high school when they were immature and rarely agreed on things. Their relationship lacked inspiration and motivation, and they often felt lost. Despite this, they kept finding their way back to each other. Over time, Dylan matured and proved his commitment to Haley. He always went the extra mile for her, even if it wasn't immediately apparent. Initially, Dylan represented Haley's rebellious side, but he also showed that bad boys can mature into good men. Ultimately, Haley realized she wanted Dylan more than anyone else.
Andy Bailey (Adam Devine)
Andy was the favorite boyfriend among all Haley Dunphy's partners throughout the entire duration of the show. Serving as Jay and Gloria's nanny, Andy brought a cheerful and enjoyable presence to the Dunphy-Pritchett family. Many people were disappointed when their relationship didn't last, as Haley herself admitted that he was the first person she truly loved, despite her previous relationships.
Initially, they were quite different individuals who constantly argued. However, they eventually fell in love and realized that they brought out the best in each other. Andy helped Haley recognize her worth and the importance of being with someone who genuinely cared for her, while Haley helped Andy understand that he deserved to be appreciated by someone. Together, they struck a perfect balance. Unfortunately, their lives took separate paths, leading to their eventual parting ways. Perhaps more accurately, Adam Devine's career endeavors led to his departure from Modern Family. Nevertheless, fans will always cherish the memories of their time together.