The Incompatibility of Sex Education: A Look at the Jackson and Cal Approach

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Jackson and Cal's romantic relationship did not progress in Season 3 of Sex Education due to Jackson's hesitation about being in a queer relationship.

Jackson acknowledged that he did not identify as queer and decided to engage in introspection prior to pursuing a romantic involvement with Cal. Throughout Season 4, Jackson and Cal worked on repairing their friendship and offered one another unwavering support, demonstrating growth and empathy.

What occurred between Cal and Jackson after the end of Sex Education season 3 and what unfolded between them in season 4?

Cal & Jackson's Relationship

Cal and Jackson crossed paths at Moordale following Cal's family relocation from the US. Their connection was instantaneous and swiftly blossomed. However, despite Cal's interest in pursuing a relationship with Jackson (and vice versa), Jackson found himself struggling with his own inner thoughts and reservations about being intimate with them. While Jackson was aware that Cal did not identify as a girl, he wrestled with the concept of engaging in a romantic relationship that would be classified as queer, unlike his previous experiences portrayed in Sex Education.

Although Jackson acknowledged the logical differences that would come with a relationship with Cal, he had to delve deep into his own emotions to determine if he was prepared for a queer relationship and understand the root cause of his uneasiness when attempting to be intimate with them.

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Jackson Is Unsure If He Can Be In A Queer Relationship

Jackson was drawn to Cal not only because of their attractive appearance, but also because of their captivating personality and determination. Despite his admiration for Cal, Jackson realized through introspection and discussions with his mother that he did not identify as queer. He acknowledged that he needed to understand more about Cal's experiences and the LGBTQ+ community in order to nurture their relationship. However, Cal, still navigating their own personal growth and learning journey, felt it was premature to educate Jackson at that moment. This became evident in the season 3 finale when Cal expressed their thoughts.

I am still in the process of discovering many aspects about myself, so I am unable to support and guide you completely. Consequently, Cal and Jackson's relationship remains platonic, although there is potential for things to change in the future. Jackson demonstrates maturity by understanding Cal's perspective, resulting in a satisfying conclusion to their romantic possibilities. It is not fair for one individual to bear the responsibility of assisting the other in their personal growth, as it hinders their own progress. If Cal had agreed to be with Jackson, they may have been in a situation where they were not prepared to fulfill that role in the relationship.

Jackson & Cal Become Friends Again In Season 4

After the events involving Cal and Jackson, it was expected that Jackson would distance himself from Cal as he was not ready to resume their friendship. Despite this, towards the end of Sex Education season 4, the two of them were able to repair their bond, although they may not be prepared to enter into a romantic relationship again. In a crucial moment of their gender dysphoria, Jackson offered a gesture of goodwill to Cal. During Cal's struggle, Jackson provided a listening ear, offered comfort, and reminded them of their worth and affection. The heartwarming conclusion of Sex Education season 4 came when Eric and Jackson accompanied Cal on their way home. This act was deeply gratifying and served as a satisfying ending.