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Rob Lowe left The West Wing at the height of its popularity because he saw it as an unhealthy relationship, comparing it to walking away from the most popular girl in school.
Lowe had encountered individuals who failed to acknowledge or back him, and he hesitated to disclose all the tales as it would tarnish the reputation of those involved.
He departed from the program to demonstrate to his children the significance of distancing oneself from abusive partners, irrespective of their popularity or success.
Rob Lowe has shared the reasons behind his departure from The West Wing during its peak of popularity. In the acclaimed series, Lowe portrayed the character of Sam Seaborn, who served as the deputy communications director alongside Richard Schiff's Toby Ziegler in Aaron Sorkin's political drama. Seaborn was responsible for crafting speeches for the President, played by Martin Sheen. Departing from his role, Lowe's character leaves to run for Congress, causing speculation about Lowe's initial exit from the NBC hit. In a pre-SAG-AFTRA strike interview with Podcrushed, Lowe discloses his decision to leave The West Wing despite its success. Drawing on the podcast's theme of reflecting on middle school experiences, Lowe compares his departure from the show to ending a relationship with "the most popular girl at school" due to its detrimental nature.
"Complaints about relationships in the workplace are common, even among actors. This could occur in any environment where individuals undermine, wish for your failure, or fail to value your contributions."
"After sharing my personal experiences, I've encountered people who vow never to share their stories again. Some of these stories, including ones I've written, are truly shocking. In fact, I deliberately chose not to include several particularly damning accounts in my book so as not to unfairly portray those involved. Consequently, my overall experience was not positive."
"[My kids] were reaching an age where I could envision them entering their first romantic experiences and potentially facing the challenge of being in an abusive relationship and tolerating it. They might encounter a situation where the girl they're interested in is popular, admired by everyone, and deemed physically attractive, just like people often commented about my experience on The West Wing, saying, 'It's so popular and amazing, it must be incredible.' However, I am aware of the reality behind the scenes, and if I couldn't break away from it, then how would I be able to guide my children to detach themselves from such relationships? Despite the fact that breaking away from the most popular girl at school was a difficult decision for me, I recognized that it was an extremely unhealthy bond, and it turned out to be the best choice I ever made."
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Sam's departure from The West Wing season 4 involved a strategic plan. To offer a change in scenery, Sam ventures into the world of politics by running for Congress in his hometown of Orange County, California. Even President Bartlet supports Sam's campaign, despite the anticipated overwhelming defeat. In a poignant farewell scene, Sam shares a heartfelt moment with Toby, resulting in a heartfelt embrace that leaves a lasting imprint. Although Sam ultimately loses the election for Congress in an undisclosed off-screen event, he gracefully retreats from the political arena and transitions into a legal career at a prominent law firm. Throughout subsequent seasons, Sam's presence is acknowledged, manifesting in his reappearance during The West Wing season 7. In the emotional series finale, he encounters the new President of the United States, marking a significant reunion.
Lowe's decision to leave was reportedly influenced by his request for a salary increase. While other West Wing actors received raises, Lowe did not. In his statement, Lowe expressed his fondness for his time on the show but acknowledged that there was no longer a place for his character, Sam Seaborn.
Initially, Lowe's departure was described as amicable. However, his comments on a podcast revealed a more complex situation regarding his feelings towards The West Wing. In the years since, Lowe has stayed busy, taking on the lead role in 911: Lone Star and headlining the Netflix comedy Unstable alongside his son John Owen Lowe. He has also appeared in Brothers & Sisters and Parks and Recreation.
Source: Podcrushed (via Entertainment Weekly)