Whoopi Goldberg has recently shared the most challenging moments of her life in her latest book, Bits and Pieces: My Mother, My Brother, and Me. This heartfelt book is a tribute to her late mother, Emma Harris, and late brother, Clyde K. Johnson.
In this memoir released on Tuesday, May 7, Goldberg, 68, expressed the importance of her family, especially her mother, in shaping her life. She emphasized that her mother played a significant role in her journey, without whom none of her accomplishments would have been possible. Harris passed away at the age of 78 in 2010 after suffering a stroke, while Johnson passed away at the age of 65 in 2015.
Goldberg has been a familiar face in the publishing world, with a collection of books under her belt, including seven for children. Her latest book, "Bits and Pieces," released in 2024, is a departure from her previous works, such as "Whoopi’s Big Book of Relationships" in 2015, as it delves more into her personal life.
In "Bits and Pieces," Goldberg shares candidly about her experiences, from the loss of her mother to her struggles with drug addiction, and reflections on motherhood. The book offers readers a glimpse into the actress' life and some of her most significant revelations.
Goldberg’s Childhood
The View star wrote that she only “understood” her mother’s plight after becoming an adult.
"My parents split up when I was young, so I didn't really have my dad around," Goldberg shared. "My mom tried to get him to help out with some money through the legal system, but unfortunately, supporting Black women in low-income areas wasn't a top concern for the state courts. Plus, we couldn't afford a lawyer who could have made a difference."
Whoopi Goldberg Bits and Pieces Memoir Reveals Her Past Drug Addiction and Famous Friendships
Despite facing challenges, Whoopi Goldberg's mother chose not to seek welfare assistance because she was against the negative reputation associated with it. Goldberg recalls her mother shedding tears a few times due to financial difficulties, but as a child, she didn't realize that their family was always on the brink of financial crisis.
Her Mother's Mental Health Struggles
Goldberg remembers a difficult time during her childhood when her mother was absent for two years. It was later discovered that her mother, Harris, had been hospitalized and received electroshock therapy, which resulted in her forgetting Goldberg and her brother.
My mother was sent to Bellevue Hospital because she had a nervous breakdown. She had been acting differently for a while, wanting to be alone and not thinking about me and my brother, Clyde.
It was later revealed that my father and grandfather supported the "experimental" treatment.
Being Dyslexic
Goldberg wrote about having dyslexia — and hiding her struggles in school.
In the 1960s, dyslexia wasn't a topic of conversation. Back then, I had no idea there was a name for the way my brain struggled with letters. All I knew was that I had to hide my difficulties.
To cope, I relied on memorization during class reading. I would store the information in my mind and pretend to read it straight from the page.
The Story Behind Goldberg's Name
Born Caryn Johnson, the actress owes her unique stage name "Whoopi Goldberg" to her mother. She revealed that the name "Whoopi" was inspired by her tendency to pass gas, and she decided to add "Cushione" with a French twist to complete it.
Goldberg's stage name started to gain attention, leading to a call from her mother with a suggestion. She explained the situation to her mother, who advised her that if she wanted to be taken seriously with a new name, it should be more substantial. Goldberg jokingly questioned her mother's naming expertise and asked for a suggestion. Her mother proposed using a name from the family tree, specifically suggesting Goldberg for its appealing sound. And that's how Goldberg became her official stage name.
Her Addiction Struggles
Goldberg revealed that she became “dependent” on drugs at 16 years old. But was able to shake the habit after “hanging out at a youth center” nightly.
In the 1980s, Goldberg fell into drugs again after being invited to parties with Quaaludes and “lines of cocaine” — which became her vice.
“It was offices for drug rehab counselors during the day,” she explained. “But in the evenings, it transformed into a safe space for young people to gather and steer clear of trouble. Despite my own struggles with bad influences, I would attend and listen to stories of redemption and freedom from addiction.”
Goldberg admitted that she initially believed she could manage her cocaine use, thinking it wasn't risky. She noticed that many people, including those in the entertainment industry, had easy access to the drug. She even described herself as a "very high-functioning addict."
However, she eventually realized that the cocaine was having a negative impact on her life and work. This realization came after experiencing a moment where she felt like she had hit rock bottom. It was a wake-up call that made her see things more clearly.
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Embracing Motherhood
Goldberg became a mother in 1973 when she welcomed her daughter, Alex Martin, with her first husband, Alvin Martin. Reflecting on her experience, Goldberg shared that the pain of childbirth was intense enough to make her hesitant about going through it again.
Goldberg discussed motherhood further, admitting that Alex would be upset with her for always being away. In her book, she also mentioned that she believed she would never win a motherhood award.
"She understands it now. But as a child, you're not thinking about money, stability, or having savings in the bank," Goldberg expressed. "When you're 8 or 9, all you want is your mom to be there."
Patrick Swayze's Support Lands Whoopi Goldberg Her Role in 'Ghost'
Whoopi Goldberg was determined to play Oda Mae after reading the script for the 1990 film Ghost. Despite being initially told she wouldn't be considered for the role, everything changed when the late Patrick Swayze stepped in as her advocate. Thanks to his support, Goldberg eventually landed the part.
Goldberg and Patrick had a great connection while filming scenes together. They enjoyed working together. Patrick gave her a gift that she never had the chance to repay. Thanks to him, she received her second Oscar nomination. Goldberg won the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress for her role in Ghost in 1991.
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A Friendship With Elizabeth Taylor
Goldberg met the late Elizabeth Taylor — whom she called “an inspiration” — at a fundraiser, and they began a years-long friendship.
Meeting Marlon Brando
Goldberg shared that despite facing criticism about her weight, marriages, illnesses, and even her name, she always remained resilient. She especially disliked being called Liz but never allowed negative comments to affect her. According to Goldberg, Elizabeth Taylor was a shining example of how fame can be used to positively impact others.
Goldberg shared a funny moment when she and the late Marlon Brando became friends. It all started when he unexpectedly entered her house and started playing the piano. When Brando passed away in 2004, he surprised Goldberg by leaving her a piece of land on his Fiji island, which caught her off guard.
After speaking with Brando's family, Goldberg decided to return her portion of the island to them.
Coping with Her Mother's Passing
In 2010, Goldberg was in London's West End performing in the stage adaptation of Sister Act when she received the news that her mother, Harris, had passed away. The call came from her brother while Dame Maggie Smith, who also starred in the 1992 movie Sister Act, was in the audience.
Goldberg mentioned that Smith started off as her "backstage company" but ended up staying with her for the entire evening. The next morning, a flight was arranged for Goldberg to leave early. During the five hours before her departure, Maggie sat with her and patiently listened as Goldberg shared stories about her family, childhood, and experiences with her brother. They shared many laughs together.
As a result of this bonding experience, Goldberg expressed that she was willing to do anything for Smith.
Scattering Her Mother’s Ashes
Goldberg found out the hard way that scattering her mother’s ashes in Disneyland is not allowed. Years later, she confessed to an employee that she had scattered the ashes on the “It’s a Small World” ride.
“I’ve been told it’s a HEPA cleanup issue,” she wrote. “You might find yourself escorted to the parking lot pretty quick. Don’t do what I did.”
Editor's P/S:
Whoopi Goldberg's memoir, "Bits and Pieces," offers a raw and deeply personal glimpse into her life, highlighting the profound impact of her family, particularly her mother and brother. Through her candid revelations about her struggles with dyslexia, addiction, and motherhood, she paints a relatable and inspiring portrait of resilience and human spirit.
Goldberg's journey serves as a testament to the complexities and triumphs of life. Her unwavering determination and ability to overcome adversity inspire readers to embrace their own challenges and pursue their dreams. The memoir provides valuable insights into the importance of family, the power of forgiveness, and the transformative nature of self-reflection. Goldberg's story reminds us that even in our darkest moments, there is always hope and the potential for growth and redemption.