Unveiling the Untold Romantic Journey of Mitsuri in Demon Slayer

In the penultimate episode of season 3 of Demon Slayer, viewers were finally introduced to Mitsuri Kanroji, also known as the Love Hashira. Alongside Tanjiro, Nezuko, and Genya, Mitsuri joined the intense battle against the powerful Upper Rank 4 Demon, Hantengu.

Although the fight was already challenging for the trio, Mitsuri's entrance stunned Hantengu with her remarkable skills as a Hashira. Love holds a special significance for Mitsuri, as it resonates deeply with her identity as a demon slayer and a young woman yearning for love.

Mitsuri's Unusual Strength

Mitsuri is renowned among the Hashira Corps for her exceptional physical strength, despite her smaller stature. This peculiarity dates back to her childhood, where she displayed an extraordinary strength from a very young age. At just fourteen months old, she amazed everyone by effortlessly lifting a fifteen-kilogram pickling stone above her head, leaving even her composed and collected mother astounded. Mitsuri's strength became an asset as she used it to assist her pregnant mother with household tasks, an act that was deeply valued and appreciated.

Strangers also noticed Mitsuri's unusual strength. On one occasion, patrons in a restaurant commented that she ate like three sumo wrestlers combined. Even at a young age, she consistently defeated grown men in arm wrestling matches, despite her slender arms. Her impressive arms and distinctive muscle structure were qualities that her family cherished and embraced. However, everything changed with her first marriage proposal, which resulted in rejection and a sense of shame.

"No One Could Ever Marry You"

At seventeen years old, Mitsuri eagerly anticipated a marriage proposal from a young man. With her vibrant personality, beauty, and confidence, she believed nothing could go wrong. However, her self-esteem shattered when he bluntly rejected the idea of marrying her.

It seemed that everything about Mitsuri was unappealing to him. He found her unconventional hair color repulsive, fearing it might be inherited by their future children. Even her strength was regarded as untamed and uncivilized, associating her with wild animals like boars. He bid her farewell, urging her to move on and forget about him and their proposal.

Mitsuri's Self-love Shatters

Mitsuri, despite her family's unwavering love, felt like she was failing as a young woman. She couldn't relate to other girls her age, feeling distant from them in every possible way. Her physical strength and hearty appetite repelled potential suitors, unlike the other young women.

When her proposal was called off, Mitsuri decided to take matters into her own hands and embrace what she believed was her true role as a woman. She dyed her vibrant hair black and drastically reduced her food intake to appear more delicate. Unfortunately, this resulted in dizziness from starving herself. She feigned weakness and told many lies to conceal her true self, believing it was the only way to find love and a husband. Her family grew increasingly concerned about the facade she was presenting. Despite the immense effort she put into becoming someone she wasn't, it sadly proved successful.

Mitsuri's Epiphany

Eventually, someone desired to propose to Mitsuri. He saw a delicate, petite young lady with black hair who was prepared for marriage. However, despite her efforts to ensure its occurrence, Mitsuri was discontented. She had gone to great lengths to conceal herself from potential partners, so why wasn't she celebrating in victory?

As her "dream" was becoming a reality, Mitsuri questioned if it was worth the extensive changes she had imposed on herself. Was finding love worth sacrificing her true identity entirely? And what about the love she experienced when she was simply being herself? Mitsuri pondered if she could sustain this facade for the rest of her life, and if it was acceptable to do so. She wondered if there were individuals out there who would embrace the unconventional aspects of her, such as her unique hair, hearty appetite, and remarkably strong muscles. It seemed insane and ironic to expect herself to thrive in a married, loving relationship when she couldn't even love herself throughout the process. She didn't want love to come at the expense of her own happiness. This proposal was discarded, and Mitsuri was determined to find individuals who loved her for who she truly was.

A Place Where She is Accepted

Mitsuri joined the Demon Slayer Corps in search of someone to protect and love her, aiming to fulfill her desire to be valued for who she truly is.

Upon meeting Kagaya Ubuyashiki, the Master of the Mansion, Mitsuri was informed that the gods hold a special affection for her. He reassured her that her strength is a source of pride and warned that those who speak ill of her are simply envious of her exceptional talent. This revelation deeply moved Mitsuri, as it marked the first instance where someone outside her own family recognized her qualities as a strength rather than a drawback.

The entire Corps accepted her, and celebrated her promotion to a Hashira. The families she saved from demons thanked her amidst sobs of gratitude and horror. Lower-ranked members of the Corps admired her for her exceptional demon-slaying abilities. Even Snake Hashira Obanai Iguro grew fond of her, presenting her with socks and offering to replace them if they tear.

Mitsuri Finds Love

Love transcends Mitsuri's breathing style, as she embodies various forms of it: friendship, familial, romantic, and self-love. Growing up in a nurturing home that embraced her true self, she was taught not to settle for anything less in her relationships. Though she faced challenges along the way, Mitsuri developed the ability to carve her own path towards love. It is peculiar how she discovered acceptance within the Demon Slayer Corps, but it paved the way for numerous opportunities to showcase her compassionate nature. Not only does Iguro hold deep affection for her, but her peers also hold her in high regard. Mitsuri finds fulfillment in her role as a Hashira, her family admires her strength, and she has learned the invaluable lesson of loving herself. Ultimately, it seems that Mitsuri has found solace and a sense of belonging.