Tom Holland has opened up about his personal battle with alcoholism. The actor, currently starring in the thought-provoking series The Crowded Room on Apple TV+, delves into the topic of mental health and emphasizes the importance of seeking support from others. Holland reflects on how this project has transformed his perspective on mental well-being and shares that he has successfully maintained sobriety for more than a year.
During an interview on the On Purpose with Jay Shetty podcast, Holland discusses the challenges he faced when confronting his drinking habits. He explains that his decision to quit alcohol was not a sudden revelation but rather a gradual process.
After experiencing what he describes as an excessively indulgent December filled with alcohol, he recognized the need for a change. This ultimately led him to the peak of his happiness, although the journey was far from easy. Read his detailed and candid response below:
It's fascinating how it all unfolded. It wasn't a sudden realization or decision to give up drinking. Like many Brits, I had a particularly boozy December during the Christmas season while on vacation. I had been consuming alcohol in abundance, a trait I seem to have inherited from my mother's side. However, I made the conscious choice to abstain for the entirety of January, participating in what is commonly known as "dry January". Ironically, all I could think about during this period was the desire to have a drink.
That's all I could think about. It consumed my thoughts from the moment I woke up. I constantly checked the clock, anxiously awaiting 12pm. The realization hit me like a wave of fear. Perhaps, just maybe, I had a slight issue with alcohol. In an attempt to discipline myself, I made the decision to extend my break to February as well. If I could successfully abstain for two months, it would be proof that I didn't have a problem. However, as the two months passed, I found myself still battling. Socializing became a challenge, unable to join friends at the pub for a non-alcoholic beverage or enjoy a meal out without struggle. The worry intensified, leading me to seriously question if I had an alcohol problem.
I decided to wait until my birthday, which falls on June 1st. My goal was to go six months without drinking alcohol to prove to myself that I didn't have a problem. By the time June 1st arrived, I was the happiest I had ever been in my life. I experienced better sleep and improved ability to handle problems, even those that typically would have upset me. My mental clarity improved significantly, and I felt healthier and more physically fit. I questioned why I was so enslaved to the idea of drinking and realized that I used to rely on alcohol to enjoy work events. The pressure to drink and the heavy drinking culture in the rugby community led me to distance myself from it. Making this change has been the best decision I've ever made.
I'm now a year and a half into this journey, and the thought of drinking doesn't even cross my mind. I have discovered amazing alternatives that I find both fantastic and healthy. I found a beer that is packed with electrolytes and carbohydrates, providing long-lasting energy. So now, having a beer is actually a really healthy choice for me.
I have never encountered a situation where my friends urge me to have a beer, insisting that everything is fine. They have always been incredibly supportive, and I don't want to be the kind of person who tells others they must become sober. If I can inspire someone to drink less, then that is wonderful. However, I do not want to cross the line of telling others they need to stop drinking because it is not my place to say. I embarked on my own personal journey and I am truly enjoying it. I am overjoyed that my mom has also chosen to give up alcohol.
Why Tom Holland Speaking Out About Addiction Is Important
In other parts of the interview, Holland demonstrates his openness. This is significant, given his status as one of Hollywood's most popular young actors and his iconic role as Spider-Man. Despite his fame, the 27-year-old has managed to avoid making headlines, dealing with personal matters privately. However, when he felt ready and in a better state of mind, he courageously shared his own experiences, hoping they could provide comfort and guidance to others facing similar challenges.
In the same interview, Holland discusses the challenges of fame. Some might argue that Holland's ability to maintain his privacy is easier because he is constantly under scrutiny. However, his openness and ability to stay sober can be seen as an inspiration to his many fans and those struggling with their own addictions.
It can be incredibly tough for individuals to step back from their hectic lives and recognize the need for change. If Holland's willingness to share his experiences helps him and others in the process, then it is undoubtedly a valuable endeavor.
Source: On Purpose with Jay Shetty