Helicopter parenting's impact on children's growth and development remains a continuously concerning issue.
Helicopter parents, driven by their desire for the best outcomes for their children, have a tendency to continuously watch over and shield them from any potential misadventures or harm. However, child experts warn that this excessive hovering can hinder the development of resilience and tenacity in children. It can also impede their ability to solve problems and take initiative.
How can we address this challenge? As educators specializing in studying hazardous settings, our latest investigation delves into parental perspectives on an outdoor play park. Our findings highlight the enriching role of outdoor parks in fostering children's engagement in adventurous play while nurturing their independence and problem-solving abilities.
The importance of risk
Risk-taking means engaging in any behavior or activity with an uncertain physical, social, emotional or financial outcome.
Risk is an everyday part of life, from driving a car to buying a house at auction or climbing a ladder.
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To handle risk, we must acquire the skills to navigate it. This involves assuming the responsibility of evaluating potential outcomes and taking appropriate measures. For instance, while crossing the road presents risks, we acquire the knowledge of checking for cars or using traffic lights when the road is crowded.
Recognizing and responding to risk-taking is crucial for the growth and development of children. In 1998, Jeff Liddle, an educator and wilderness guide from the United States, emphasized the importance of risk in lifelong learning.
Outdoor experiences offer ideal opportunities for developing risk-related skills as they are not controlled environments. For instance, each tree presents a unique climbing challenge, and the conditions can change based on the weather.
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Our study
We conducted a recent study where we interviewed parents and caregivers regarding the risk-taking behavior of children at the Boongaree nature play park in Berry, New South Wales. This park boasts a combination of traditional play equipment such as slides and climbing ropes, as well as a range of natural elements including water, stones, timber, sand, and abundant greenery.
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After gaining attention and sparking discussions on both traditional and social media platforms, Boongaree garnered much controversy due to a series of accidents, some resulting in broken bones. The Daily Mail even labeled it as Australia's "most dangerous playground." In response to the concerns raised by the community, the authorities decided to replace the parks tunnel slide in May with a slide that offered less "momentum."
In June, we conducted several visits to the park and managed to enlist the participation of 302 adults, who filled out a survey regarding their children's usage of the park. Additionally, we followed up with a closed Facebook group consisting of 56 parents from the same cohort.
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The benefits of risk
Parents shared their perspectives on the park, emphasizing the numerous advantages of engaging in risky play. Such benefits encompassed providing children with the opportunity to:
- Face challenges and develop problem-solving skills
- Establish a connection with the natural environment
- Take charge of their playtime
- Engage in physical activity and stay active
- Foster creativity and curiosity
- Demonstrate self-assurance and independence
- Enhance their social aptitude through sharing equipment and taking turns.
Risk is an everyday part of life, and children need to learn to navigate risks when they're playing outdoors. Such risk-taking is an integral part of children's growth.
One parent explained how the children's expressions transformed upon reaching the summit of the climbing ropes and embarking on the bridges - a remarkable display of resilience and resolve, culminating in a satisfying, deep breath.
One parent emphasized the significance of allowing children to freely choose the level of risk they wish to take and how fast or high they would like to go.
Another parent highlighted how the park grants children the freedom to play in a manner that suits their comfort level.
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How to support your child in outdoor, risky play
When you visit the park again, how can you encourage your child to take calculated risks? Here are some valuable tips derived from our research on children, risk, and outdoor play:
Approach with positivity: Playgrounds are created to enhance physical and social abilities. Therefore, anticipate your child exploring new activities at the park, rather than sticking to familiar equipment and playing it safe.
Be prepared to provide support and step back when necessary. Sometimes it is beneficial to let children explore the equipment or area on their own. Other times, parents need to be present. Therefore, it is important to keep a watchful eye on the situation. However, avoid assuming that assistance will be required at all times.
Choice of words is significant. Avoid using phrases like "be careful," as it can instill fear in children. Instead, rephrase your language in a more encouraging manner. For example, ask if there is a sturdier piece of wood to step on or point out the hole in the vicinity.
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Encourage your child to observe their surroundings and ask, "Which direction do you feel like exploring - to the left or the right?" This encourages them to assess the situation and develop their self-confidence and problem-solving abilities.
Offer helpful suggestions to children by providing specific instructions on how to use equipment safely. For instance, while they are climbing, advise them to "Maintain three points of contact on the ladder - two hands and one foot."
Empower the child: Give your child the freedom to choose which equipment they want to use and set their own limits on how high they climb. Avoid pressuring them to participate in activities that make them uncomfortable. Additionally, intervene only if the equipment is clearly beyond their current skill level.
Enjoy yourself: Show enthusiasm, participate in their imaginative games, and emphasize that it is perfectly fine for them to accept or decline a challenge. Both options are acceptable!
Tonia Gray, a professor at Western Sydney University, is a member of the Centre for Educational Research. Jaydene Barnes, an associate lecturer at the same university, is also part of this research group. Marion Sturges, an academic professional adviser and lecturer in education, is also a contributor to this article. One of the contributors, Amanda Lloyd, is recognized for her contribution to the research. It is important to note that the authors have no financial or professional conflicts of interest related to this article.
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