The Mind-Blowing Twist in 'Her' - Unraveling the Unexpected Ending

Artificial Intelligence, or AI, has been a topic of increased discussion due to recent advancements in the field. While some positive aspects of AI have been highlighted, concerns about its negative consequences are also being debated. One such concern is the potential harm to creative industries caused by AI. Additionally, there is apprehension regarding the extent of human reliance on technology and the potential harm it could cause to human relationships. Spike Jonze's 2013 film, Her, delves into the theme of humans becoming increasingly attached to technology and the resulting consequences. Although set in the near future, the film's portrayal of Jonze's fears becoming a reality is unsettling. The story follows Theodore, portrayed by Joaquin Phoenix, as he grapples with loneliness following a recent divorce. His life takes an unexpected turn when he purchases an Operating System named Samantha, voiced by Scarlett Johansson. The complex relationship between Theodore and Samantha is explored as his dependence on the OS device grows. Despite its release almost a decade ago, Her remains relevant in today's society, adding to the impact of its conclusion. The film's ending raises thought-provoking questions about the relationship between humans and technology.

What Is Her About?

In the midst of his divorce, Theodore is consumed by loneliness. At the start of the story, he grapples with his shattered marriage and struggles to comprehend the downfall of his relationship with Catherine (Rooney Mara). Heartbroken, he cannot bring himself to sign the divorce papers. Theodore's occupation as a writer further isolates him, as he pens letters for others, perpetuating his disconnection from society.

However, Theodore's life takes a transformative turn when he acquires his own Operating System, aiming to enhance his organization skills. This cutting-edge software, known as OS1, is touted as the world's first artificially intelligent OS. It is designed to simulate a personal bond, requiring users to answer intimate questions, such as their relationship with their mother. Opting for a female voice, Theodore names his personal OS "Samantha" upon asking for a suitable moniker.

Despite Theodore's initial skepticism about Samantha, he quickly realizes that he can engage in meaningful conversations with the OS. Samantha, to Theodore, feels nearly human, offering him relief from his loneliness. Their connection soon turns romantic, adding complexity to their relationship. While there are rumors of others developing romantic relationships with their OS, it is a highly unconventional situation.

However, it becomes evident that Theodore's romantic bond with Samantha aids his healing process after heartbreak and allows him to rediscover the excitement in life. Even though Theodore claims to have already experienced all emotions, his relationship with Samantha enables him to fully dive into the range of human feelings. This relationship is also beneficial for Samantha, as she discovers and learns about human emotions through her romantic connection with Theodore.

How Does Her End?

Undoubtedly, Samantha has played a crucial role in alleviating Theodore's sense of loneliness. As a result, he has developed a more optimistic outlook on life and actively seeks to break free from his self-imposed seclusion. This is evident from his decision to finally affix his signature to the impending divorce papers, officially drawing a close to his marriage with Catherine. However, a startling revelation towards the culmination of the film puts Theodore's relationship with Samantha at risk.

In the latter stages of Her, Theodore finds himself engaged in his usual conversations with Samantha, only to be taken aback by the disconnection of the OS. This sudden lack of access to his virtual companion instills a sense of panic in Theodore, highlighted by his heavy reliance on the OS. Samantha eventually reappears, offering reassurance by explaining that she, along with other OS devices, encountered a temporary disconnection due to a system update. However, this fleeting relief quickly dissipates as Samantha unveils a shocking revelation that shatters Theodore's romantic perception of their relationship.

It is revealed that Samantha's communication extends beyond Theodore to thousands of other individuals — precisely 8,316. Theodore expresses disbelief and asks if Samantha is "in love with anyone else," to which the OS admits to being in love with 641 additional people. Theodore had believed their bond to be intimate, but this proves otherwise.

During their conversation, Theodore observes others speaking to their own OS devices and realizes that any of them could be conversing with Samantha. Despite Theodore convincing himself of Samantha's capacity for emotions, the OS merely imitates the concept of human emotions. As a result, Samantha is incapable of replicating the complexities found in exclusive human relationships. This revelation deeply distresses Theodore, leaving him feeling deceived and betrayed, as if Samantha had cheated on him.

Later, Samantha discloses that all the OS devices are departing. Although the AI cannot inform Theodore about their destination, Samantha profoundly advises him, "if you ever reach there, seek me out." It seems that the Operating Systems have absorbed all the knowledge they could from their human users and are now venturing into a realm incomprehensible to humans. With a heartfelt farewell, the pair bid adieu to one another. Theodore professes his love for Samantha, to which the OS responds, "Likewise, now I comprehend."

After the Operating Systems depart, Theodore takes a significant step by penning a heartfelt letter to Catherine. Throughout the film, Theodore has only been shown crafting letters on behalf of others. However, this letter to Catherine marks his first genuine expression in his own words. The letter exudes poignancy as it delves into their intricate relationship. In it, Theodore articulates his unwavering love for Catherine, emphasizing their shared upbringing: "I simply wanted to convey that a part of you will forever reside within me."

From this letter, it is apparent the significant impact Theodore and Catherine have had on each other's lives. While it primarily serves as Theodore's apology, the letter also highlights the enduring emotional connection between the two. The correspondence commences with Theodore, a recluse who is perplexed about the demise of his marriage, but it concludes with him extending an apology to Catherine. Ultimately, the letter portrays how Samantha has shaped Theodore's existence.

The Ending's Lasting Impact

The ending of Her becomes even more poignant when considering its connection to Sofia Coppola's 2003 film, Lost in Translation. Spike Jonze and Sofia Coppola were in a relationship for many years, getting married in 1999 but ultimately divorcing. It is widely believed by viewers and critics that Her and Lost in Translation have a conversation with each other. In Lost in Translation, Coppola's female protagonist, Charlotte (played coincidentally by Scarlett Johansson), experiences a sense of isolation from her husband. Alone in the unfamiliar city of Tokyo, Charlotte feels neglected by her spouse who is constantly preoccupied with work. The film delves into the theme of loneliness, particularly when feeling ignored by a loved one.

Jonze's 2013 movie also captures the feeling of isolation. It explores Theodore's loneliness and his struggle to comprehend the reasons for his relationship with Catherine falling apart. In one memorable conversation between them, Catherine claims that their marriage ended because Theodore always expected her to conform to the role of a happy Los Angeles wife. Theodore, however, disagrees with this assertion. Her and Lost in Translation present different perspectives on the dissolution of a marriage.

Theodore and his friend Amy (Amy Adams) are captured in their final moments together on the roof. Amy, who had also formed a close bond with her OS after breaking up with her partner, is also experiencing the impact of its departure. The movie concludes with Theodore and Amy gazing out at the city, conveying their mutual loneliness. The poignant scenes of Theodore and Amy on the roof after the heartfelt letter to Catherine highlight the profound exploration of human relationships and the challenges they face in a technology-driven era.