Powerful and Emotional: Dele Alli Opens up About Childhood Sexual Abuse
Everton midfielder Dele Alli bravely discloses his experience of childhood sexual abuse at the tender age of six In a candid conversation with Gary Neville on The Overlap, the 27-year-old also shares his recent six-week stint in rehab
Dele Alli has revealed he was sexually abused at the age of six.
"At six, I was molested," the Everton midfielder told Gary Neville on The Overlap.
I was initially sent to Africa with the intention to learn discipline; however, I was eventually sent back. At the age of seven, I began smoking, and by eight, I got involved in drug dealing. An older individual advised me that authorities wouldn't suspect a child, so I would conceal the drugs underneath my football while riding around.
When I turned eleven, I experienced a traumatizing incident where an individual from the neighboring community hung me off a bridge. Thankfully, at the age of twelve, I was fortunate enough to be adopted by an incredible family. I am immensely grateful for their extraordinary support and kindness. If there is anyone who exemplifies God's creation, it is them. Their remarkable presence in my life has made a significant difference and provided immense help.
During a frank interview, the 27-year-old individual, who opened up about his dependence on sleeping pills, also discussed his six-week stay at a rehabilitation center in the United States this summer.
"I developed an addiction to sleeping tablets, and it's likely not an issue that I alone face. I believe it's a problem that is more prevalent in football than people realize."
The England international, who spent the previous season on loan at Besiktas, has revealed that now is the appropriate moment to share his story. Discussing this topic is challenging since it is a recent revelation that I have kept hidden for a significant period of time and that I am apprehensive about discussing. Upon my return from Turkey, I discovered that I required surgery. This revelation led me to a difficult mental state. Consequently, I made the choice to seek assistance at a modern rehabilitation facility that specializes in addiction, mental health, and trauma. It felt like the right time for me to prioritize my well-being. It is important to note that going to such a facility is a personal decision, one that cannot be imposed upon oneself by others.
I found myself stuck in a detrimental cycle, relying on harmful things. Each day, I would wake up and put on a brave face, going into my training sessions with a smile, attempting to show that I was happy. However, on the inside, I was losing the battle, and I knew it was time for a change. When I received the news that I needed surgery, the familiar feelings from when the cycle began resurfaced.
I am forever grateful to Everton for their incredible support and understanding. Their honesty and support meant the world to me, especially during a time when I had to make the biggest decision of my life – one that filled me with fear. I am now content and satisfied that I have taken the necessary steps.
