Nikki Reed and Ian Somerhalder: A Fairytale Love Story with Two Adorable Offsprings

Nikki Reed and Ian Somerhalder wasted no time in taking their relationship to the next level. They got engaged just six months after they started dating in January 2015, and tied the knot in April 2015. Four years later, Nikki Reed took to Instagram to express their commitment to each other, acknowledging that they may still be figuring things out, but they wake up every day and choose each other. They've experienced a lot together, laughed together, supported each other, and remained each other's biggest cheerleaders.

The couple's dating status was confirmed in 2014. Since then, they have welcomed a daughter named Bodhi Soleil and a son in June 2023. They consistently express their deep affection for one another.

Prior to the birth of Bodhi in July 2017, Somerhalder openly expressed his longing to begin a family with the Thirteen actress.

"Oh, in October 2016, he expressed his confidence and excitement about having incredible children with his stunning wife to Modern Luxury magazine."

"After their daughter was born, the individual from Louisiana has consistently praised Reed's qualities and singing abilities."

Content: In May 2020, the Lost alum took to Instagram to express admiration for his wife, commending her as a mother, business owner, daughter, sister, wife, and friend. He praised her ability to handle multiple responsibilities, including being a full-time mom, running her own company, and taking on numerous other jobs. He also acknowledged her dedication to supporting his chaotic life work, such as managing their foundation. The alum concluded by stating that he is simply in awe of her and grateful for the lessons she has taught him through her generosity and unparalleled capacity for love.

During an interview with Andy Cohen on SiriusXM's Radio Andy in February 2021, the Vampire Diaries alum revealed that communication is the key to maintaining a successful relationship.

"Prioritizing self-care – for both individuals and as a couple," he stated.

When Cohen inquired about his ability to please his partner, he confidently responded, "Absolutely," emphasizing that intimacy involves concepts of benevolence, empathy, and reciprocity.

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Nikki Reed and Ian Somerhalder's Romance: From Friends to Married With 2 Kids

Nikki Reed and Ian Somerhalder became engaged in January 2015, just six months into their relationship. They wasted no time in taking the next step, as they tied the knot in April of the same year. In April 2019, on their fourth wedding anniversary, the Twilight actress took to Instagram to express her love for her husband. She emphasized that despite not knowing if they're doing things perfectly, they wake up every day and choose each other. She also highlighted the experiences they've shared, the laughter they've enjoyed, and the unwavering support they provide as each other's biggest cheerleaders.

The couple's relationship was officially confirmed in 2014. Since then, they have joyfully welcomed their daughter, Bodhi Soleil, and had a son in June 2023. Their commitment and affection for one another are evident in every opportunity they have to express it. Prior to the birth of Bodhi in July 2017, Somerhalder expressed his longing to begin a family with the Thirteen actress.

"I am absolutely certain that one day I will have extraordinary children with my stunning wife," he enthusiastically told Modern Luxury magazine in October 2016.

Ever since their daughter was born, the proud Louisiana native has never ceased to sing Reed's praises.

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"You amaze me with your motherhood, your entrepreneurship, your role as a daughter, a sister, a wife, and a friend. You handle everything like a boss," the Lost actor declared on Instagram, honoring his wife's birthday in May 2020. "You are the only person I know who can be a devoted full-time mom, run your own company, and juggle multiple other responsibilities, all while dedicating your time and energy to supporting my chaotic life and work, including our foundation. You are truly extraordinary, and I am in awe of everything that you are. Your generosity and capacity to love like no other have taught me so much."

During an interview on SiriusXM's Radio Andy in February 2021, the Vampire Diaries star revealed that "communication" is the key to maintaining their relationship.

"Prioritizing self-care and nurturing personal well-being, both individually and as a couple," he emphasized.

When Cohen inquired about his ability to be a considerate partner, he promptly replied, "Absolutely," acknowledging that intimacy entails attributes such as selflessness, empathy, and reciprocity. It encompasses the notion of equitable sharing."

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Vamping It Up!

Us broke news in July 2014 about the relationship between the Twilight alum and the hunk from Vampire Diaries. They were spotted together for the first time at the Studio City Farmers Market and were seen jogging side by side in L.A. It's interesting to note that before they became a couple, they were already connected through their previous relationships. In 2009, Somerhalder dated Reed's Twilight costar Ashley Greene, while Reed was friendly with Somerhalder's ex, Nina Dobrev. Additionally, both Reed and Dobrev have also had romantic ties with Dancing With the Stars' Derek Hough.

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Red Carpet Official

The couple got cozy at the 2014 Teen Choice Awards held at L.A.'s Shrine Auditorium in August 2014. Within the same month, they made the decision to adopt a horse named Eagle and took a big step by moving in together after only three weeks of dating. Their new residence? It happens to be near the set of Somerhalder's hit TV show, The Vampire Diaries, located in Atlanta, Georgia. According to an insider, Nikki accompanies Ian to the set every day.

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Starbucks Lovers

In September 2014, Somerhalder and Reed were seen affectionately holding hands while enjoying coffee in Beverly Hills. At the same time, Reed appeared on The Late Late Show with Craig Ferguson, where she performed with her former husband and their band. Following nearly three years of marriage, Reed filed for divorce from Paul McDonald, a contestant on American Idol season 10, in May 2014.

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Getting Serious!

One happy and harmonious family! In October 2014, Reed and Somerhalder shared an Instagram photo, capturing a precious moment with their beloved pups, Nietzsche and Enzo. Somerhalder couldn't hide his delight as he expressed, "A day with three of the most beautiful ladies in the universe...Wow, smiling is such a profound part of the human experience—I highly recommend it." Overflowing with admiration for Reed, he continued, "Thank you for dedicating so much of your life and for being a powerful advocate for those who cannot speak. I salute you with utmost respect. You continue to astound me. Love, Ian."

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Outdoor Lovebirds

When not working, Somerhalder and Reed frequently enjoy horseback riding with their horses Eagle and Millie. "A serene Georgia afternoon, taking a break from work..." Somerhalder wrote in the caption of an Instagram picture in late October 2014. "Embracing the simple beauty of the tranquil countryside, while showering my kids and these incredible women with love... This is truly wonderful. Just what I needed." The couple also have a kitten named Sohalia.

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Winter Wonderland

Reed and the Lost alum enjoyed a skiing trip during the holidays in December 2014, accompanied by the actress' brother Nathan. "When families come together and emotions intertwine, there's only one appropriate response: the butt wiggle," Reed playfully captioned the accompanying photo. Somerhalder chimed in with warm wishes, stating, "To everyone, I wish the happiest of holidays. May these moments bring nothing but smiles, quality time with family, and self-reflection. I am thankful for all the love I have received this year..."

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Courtside Cuties

Did anyone notice? It didn't matter! Somerhalder pressed close to Reed and shared a passionate kiss during a basketball game between the Phoenix Suns and Los Angeles Lakers at L.A.'s Staples Center on Dec. 28, 2014.

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Proposal Hint?

Somerhalder expressed his excitement for the future with Reed in January 2015 while reminiscing about how they spent New Year's Day. Sharing a throwback picture of the couple on Instagram, he wrote, "How I spent my New Year's Day - in a #tbt way - wow. Week one of 2015." Grateful for the support he received, he added, "Thank you all for giving me so much strength. We're prepared to conquer challenges and create a bright future from this point forward. Wishing you a fantastic first week of the New Year. May you be on track to achieving a sustainable and harmonious future."

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Yep, They're Engaged!

Us confirmed in January 2015 that Somerhalder had proposed to Reed after six months of dating. According to an insider, Reed happily accepted the proposal, exuding sheer joy and an overwhelming love for Somerhalder. The couple had been acquaintances before and had laid the foundation for their relationship. Despite being in other relationships previously, they were always drawn to each other. Although some may view their engagement as quick, they both knew in their hearts that it was the right decision. They share the same values, including a strong commitment to their careers and helping others.

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Val Pals

To mark their first Valentine's Day together, Somerhalder took to Instagram and shared a sweet moment with his fiancée, his hair still wet from a shower. In his post, the dashing actor admitted that he used to view this day as a ploy by chocolatiers and florists, but now he understands the significance of setting aside time to celebrate love in our hectic lives, emphasizing that such appreciation should be expressed every day.

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Shy Sweeties

Reed and Somerhalder were captured on camera at the Noble Awards on Feb. 27, 2015, with Reed blushing as they posed together. The Beverly Hilton Hotel in California served as the venue for their enjoyable night out.

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Would You Like a Sip?

While out on a coffee date in Venice, Calif. on April 6, 2015, the Vampire Diaries hottie looked smitten with his giggling fiancee.

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Coachella Kisses

Days prior to their upcoming wedding on April 26, the Twilight actress and her vampire fiancé were seen engaging in a passionate kiss at the Coachella music festival in Indio, California. The couple unabashedly displayed their affection for one another amidst the electrifying atmosphere of Hozier's performance.

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Post-Wedding Bliss

After their secret wedding ceremony in Topanga, Calif., the couple flew to Tulum, Mexico for an extended honeymoon. A source informed Us that their schedules are currently open, allowing them to plan a grand trip spanning various destinations across the globe!

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New Marriage, New Tan

Amidst their initial days of wedded bliss, Reed shared an enchanting Instagram snapshot depicting her alluring newly-wedded husband tenderly kissing her on the sun-drenched Mexican beach. "A mixture of salt, sand, stickiness, and a sunburn. Simply the finest. I adore this remarkable individual. My beloved," she affectionately captioned the endearing photograph.

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Up Next…

After their romantic getaway in Mexico, the amorous couple proceeded to Rio De Janeiro, Brazil. Their deep affection for each other was on full display during a heartfelt dinner on May 3, where they embraced each other tightly following an engaging fan meet-and-greet.

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Back to Business

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Marriage Milestones

The couple joyously celebrated their second anniversary on April 26, 2017, by expressing their love for one another on social media. Accompanied by heartfelt photographs from their wedding, the pair exchanged sweet messages. The former Thirteen star paid a heartfelt tribute to her husband, affectionately referring to him as "my guy, my man, my honey, my partner in this life, my better half in every way." She proclaimed, "Embarking on life's journey with you has been the most extraordinary and fulfilling adventure I have ever experienced. We face challenges, we evolve, and we find humor in it all. I am grateful for your unwavering authenticity and your unconditional love for every part of me." In return, Somerhalder hailed Reed as "the most remarkable person on this planet." He expressed gratitude for her unwavering friendship and acknowledged her remarkable qualities – her dedication, kindness, patience, and unparalleled talent.

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Bun in the Oven!

The Lost actor made an exciting announcement on Instagram on May 4, 2017, revealing that he and Reed are expecting their first child. A heartfelt photo shows him tenderly kissing Reed's baby bump. In his caption, he expresses his awe and joy, stating that nothing in his 38 years on Earth has been as powerful and beautiful as this experience. He shares his excitement for the next chapter and emphasizes that they wanted to share the news themselves before anyone else. The couple cherished this special time together and with their rapidly growing little one. Reed also joins in the excitement, addressing a touching note to their future child, expressing her love and anticipation to meet them. The bond they share as parents-to-be is profound, as they have already shared many experiences and have a deep connection.

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Shhhh!

Reed and Somerhalder intended to have a period of quiet solitude, referred to as a "month of silence," following the birth of their child. In an interview with Fit Pregnancy in August 2017, Reed expressed their plan of spending this time with just the three of them, without any visitors, and also decided to switch off their phones. The purpose behind this was to avoid any external expectations for communication as they wanted to fully immerse themselves in the precious initial 30 days of their parenthood journey.

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She’s Here!

The new parents welcomed their first child, a baby girl named Bodhi Soleli, on July 25, 2017. 

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Date Night

In their initial appearance on the red carpet after the birth of their daughter, the joyous parents radiated a sense of serenity and happiness at EIF's XQ Super School Live event held at Barker Hangar in Santa Monica, California, on September 8, 2017.

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Daddy Duties

While attending the Golden Globes on January 7, 2018, Somerhalder demonstrated his devotion as a husband by carrying around Reed's breast pump all night in a convenient 'to go' box. The photo posted on Reed's Instagram Story shows the Smallville star holding the product, and the caption humorously praises his actions, stating, "It takes a real man to carry about your breast pump in a 'to go' box all night" along with slapping hands, praying hands, and a laughing-crying emoji.

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Sweet Messages

Somerhalder paid tribute to his wife on her first Mother's Day on May 14, 2018, by sharing a heartwarming photo on Instagram. The image features the Mini's First Time star delicately cradling her baby bump. In the caption, Somerhalder expressed his awe and admiration for his wife, stating, "You are the warmth of the sun, the light of the moon, the air in my breath, and the ground beneath my feet. How fortunate I am to witness your natural strength and beauty as a mother."

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Time for Some R&R!

The couple decided to escape to the stunning Villa Del Palmar in Loreto, Mexico, during the idyllic month of June in 2018. Immerse in relaxation, they indulged in activities such as paddle-boarding, engaging in acro-yoga, and embarking on a picturesque stroll along the pristine shoreline.

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Keeping the Spark Alive

In April 2019, The Thirteen star mentioned that their relationship thrives because they motivate each other to pursue their aspirations. They both possess a multitude of interests and are passionate individuals. Consequently, they emphasize the significance of supporting each other's dreams, goals, and passions, which they actively incorporate into their relationship.

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Still in Love

The happy couple commemorated their fourth wedding anniversary in April 2019 with emotional messages to each other via Instagram.

"I'm absolutely amazed by you," expressed the V Wars star in that moment. "The radiance and genuineness of your smile are contagious to everyone around us. We have ventured to various places, discovering, experiencing, savoring, laughing, cherishing, and nurturing our little one."

Reed, on her part, penned, "Four years ago, we had no clue about what lay ahead. We were unaware of the profound lessons life had to offer or the essence of being a true partner in someone's life. We were simply two young individuals consumed by love for each other. We were yet to grasp the art of evolving together, but we were certain of our love and our determination to learn and grow ... together."

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Back to the Start

In June 2019, the 5th anniversary of their first date was joyously celebrated by Somerhalder. "This incredible individual walked into my Atlanta townhouse for tea five years ago today," he wrote alongside a photo of Reed lovingly embracing him. "Since that day, we have not spent a moment apart... What an enchanting journey it has been, @nikkireed. I am endlessly grateful for the things you teach me every day. With love, Your Man."

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Head Over Heels

Reed penned a sweet birthday tribute to her husband in December 2019 where she recalled one of her favorite memories of Somerhalder.

“Happy birthday to this amazing person. It’s another year passing by, and turning 41. It was a special moment,” she shared on Instagram. “I can vividly remember capturing this picture, with distant mountains forming a picturesque backdrop on that beautiful cloudy day in Idaho. You were giggling uncontrollably, and it brought so much joy to witness that smile, as if you had become a child again. We all adore you.”

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His Superwoman

Somerhalder showered Reed with praise on her 32nd birthday in May 2020, acknowledging her as an exceptional individual who excels in her roles as a mother, business owner, daughter, sister, wife, and friend. In an Instagram post featuring a collection of photos, the Louisiana native expressed his admiration for her ability to effectively manage multiple responsibilities, including being a full-time mom, running her own company, and holding various other jobs. He acknowledged her unwavering support for his endeavors and expressed his gratitude for her generosity and unconditional love. Somerhalder recognized Reed's strength, wisdom, and power, and vowed to reciprocate by creating space for her to fulfill her dreams. He concluded by labeling her as a trailblazer, an influential figure, and a source of inspiration, and expressed his eagerness to celebrate her not just on her birthday, but every day.

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Birthday Sentiments

Reed expressed her jubilation for Somerhalder's 42nd birthday through an extensive and heartfelt tribute on Instagram. "Happy Happy birthday to this remarkable man. He possesses unparalleled creativity, a certified genius, and unrivaled depth of thought amongst all those I have ever encountered. His spirit is one of tremendous generosity, infusing love into countless hearts, infusing passion into every endeavor, and infusing vibrancy into every mere fantasy," she eloquently shared alongside a photograph of the actor, beaming with a hat atop his head and wearing a white tank top. "My only yearning for you on this special day is that you find solace in witnessing the sheer magic you incessantly create. Take a moment to inhale deeply, for today belongs solely to you. You have deservedly accrued a full 42 years on this planet, having lived more vigorously than the majority ever will within their entire lifetime."

The Thirteen star exclaimed, "You have an abundance of tales to impart, and this phase of witnessing your remarkable growth in various realms of passion, through all that you are engendering, is bound to be absolutely extraordinary. Happy Birthday, Mr!!!! Affectionately, Mama and B."

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Long-Lasting Love

Somerhalder shared the secret to his relationship with Reed in a February 2021 interview on SiriusXM’s Radio Andy. "The key is communication - making sure we make time for ourselves both as a couple and as individuals," he revealed. Without a doubt, he emphasized his commitment to being a generous and giving partner. He further expressed that for him, sex is all about reciprocity, compassion, and the act of sharing equally.

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Rescued

Somerhalder expressed his gratitude to Reed for rescuing him from a financial crisis during her 33rd birthday celebration in May 2021. In an extensive Instagram post, he acknowledged that she had selflessly dedicated two years to extricating him from a dreadful business situation he had gotten himself into before they began their relationship. "Instead of watching her husband destroy his well-being, she took action and rallied a team to negotiate a way out," he wrote. "She committed her life to freeing me from that mess, even though it took a toll on her. I owe my current situation entirely to her."

He added: "Happy 33rd birthday to you, an incredible angel of a person. The positive energy you bring into our home and this world is truly awe-inspiring. You are a true superhero. It is because of you that I am able to live, pursue my dreams, and start fresh. The world needs more individuals like you. With love, Ian, also known as Baby Daddy."

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Seven Years Later

In anticipation of their upcoming seventh wedding anniversary, Somerhalder expressed his admiration for his wife when discussing their intentions to commemorate the occasion with a romantic camping expedition. "This is an incredibly significant moment because we're reaching a major milestone. I mean, seven years is quite a feat," he shared with E! News in March 2022 before disclosing their secret getaway plans. "It'll just be my beloved and me, venturing to a remarkable undisclosed location, cherishing our time together, and then returning."

The actor commended Reed for his exceptional survival skills, declaring, "I have yet to encounter a person more resourceful. I firmly believe that with our collective abilities, we could indefinitely thrive on an island. One could place us on an island, and we would flourish."

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Birthday Love

Wishing the happiest of birthdays to this incredible Papa! Despite juggling an overwhelming workload, jet-setting around the world, and building a business, you still wake up with enthusiasm for a fun day at the park or a smoothie outing with our little one. The way you light up like a Christmas tree when she proudly shows you her artwork from art class or when we welcome a new baby kitten into our lives is truly heartwarming.

Many people ask me how you manage to do it all, and I can only attribute it to sheer magic. You possess a special kind of magic that allows all of your ideas to flourish and thrive. As we celebrate your birthday this year, my wish for you is to find continued fulfillment in everything you do. May you discover moments of peace amidst the chaos and bring your dream of slowing down and grounding yourself closer with each step you take. You truly deserve it.

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A Sweet Message

"I want to take a moment to express my gratitude to the incredible person standing beside me, who has been the driving force that propels me forward and enables me to rapidly establish @brothersbondbourbon and connect with all of you across this expansive nation and in Canada," the actor expressed in a heartfelt Instagram tribute to his wife in December 2022. "Nik, you have devoted countless hours to holding down the fort while I am away, and I am truly at a loss for words to convey the depth of my appreciation." The actor's lengthy social media post continued: "By your unwavering support, I have been able to successfully establish this company alongside my team. Therefore, I extend a heartfelt thank you to you. So, until my next journey begins early next year, I make a solemn promise to: tend to the cleaning of the cat boxes, ensure the horses are well-covered, provide nourishment to the goats, chickens, cats, dogs, and geckos, and guarantee the watering of each plant that sustains us. This way, you can continue to be the exceptional and remarkable working mother that you are, defying all odds."

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Baby No. 2 Coming in 2023

"2023 marks a celebration of life, as we reflect on years spent dreaming, manifesting, and praying for this very moment," Reed shared on Instagram in January 2023 to announce her second pregnancy. "Overflowing with love, this is truly a precious gift."

Somerhalder expressed his elation by posting an Instagram photo of his wife's blossoming belly, capturing the joyous news. "Since my early days, my greatest desire has been to have a large family. I am grateful to Nik for granting me this precious gift," he shared. "It's time for the next chapter – ROUND TWO HERE WE GO!!!!!"

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Family of 4!

In June 2023, Reed took to her Instagram Story to share the joyful news that her and Somerhalder's son had arrived a few weeks earlier. Although she didn't disclose the baby's name at that moment, she expressed the profound experience of giving birth at home, in water, and being enveloped with immense love. This special moment expanded her heart instantaneously.