Jo Wenberg Opens Up About Moving On from Tom Schwartz and the Struggle with Trust After Their Split

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Jo Wenberg, a new cast member on Vanderpump Rules, shared that she is no longer in contact with Tom Schwartz following their breakup on the show.

During an episode of Rachel “Raquel”’ Leviss‘ podcast “Rachel Goes Rogue” on April 11, Wenberg explained that both she and Schwartz have decided not to communicate anymore. She mentioned that they have set boundaries but also expressed that she may still miss him and that they could potentially talk again in the future.

Wenberg believed that Schwartz, 41, also felt the impact of their distance, stating, “It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t miss me. Our relationship was very natural and uncomplicated. It was easy and straightforward. All the qualities I look for in a partner, he had them.”

The hairstylist, who first appeared on season 11 of Vanderpump Rules, attributed their issues to a lack of trust.

Wenberg shared that the one thing missing in their relationship was trust, but he understands that he cannot dictate who his ex-partner should be with. Instead, he focuses on moving forward and improving himself. He expressed gratitude for the happiness they shared and the countless moments of laughter they experienced together.

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Jo Wenberg shared on Instagram about Schwartz's close but confusing relationship with her. This connection was first mentioned during season 10 after Schwartz and Katie Maloney had announced their divorce in March 2022, before filming new episodes began.

The co-owner of TomTom later revealed during the season 10 reunion that he was casually dating Wenberg. He downplayed the seriousness of their relationship, but viewers saw more of it on the show.

Wenberg shared on Thursday, "I believe we could have resolved our issues. However, we are at different stages in our lives, and I respect his journey as well as my own. We are not on bad terms at all. I had to establish some boundaries, and I am content with that."

Wenberg revealed that she felt extremely down when Schwartz broke up with her on screen. She expressed how difficult it was for her because she had never been with someone who made her smile constantly, only to have it all come to an end. Wenberg reminisced about the happiness and love they shared, how they were in their own world of affection and tenderness. However, whenever the cameras rolled in, she felt like she was invisible.

Schwartz repeatedly mentioned in season 11 that he wasn’t interested in a serious relationship. However, Wenberg believed that Schwartz was telling her something else privately. "It was really difficult. It was incredibly tough," she confessed. "I still get chills just thinking about it. Then, when we filmed again, he would fabricate stories, claiming that we were both seeing other people. But I wasn't seeing anyone else."

It has been tough for Wenberg to watch season 11 of Vanderpump Rules because of Schwartz's remarks. On a podcast, she mentioned, "I was always the last to find out about everything, and I was just being myself."

Wenberg expressed that she is still mourning her relationship with Schwartz, saying, "I really miss him. I know he has moved on, so there's nothing I can do about it. It will take me a long time to feel happy again with someone else."

She shared, "I was really struggling mentally. It was a new feeling for me to admit that. I found it hard to get out of bed unless I was working on hair. Spending five days a week with someone for over a year and then suddenly having that connection severed felt like a loss. It was tough to move on, especially without any support for my recovery. Later on, I found out they were already in a new relationship. It felt like they needed to make a decision and stick with it."

Wenberg's perspective sheds light on the situation, following Schwartz's explanation of how timing played a significant role in their relationship.

"I may have sent some mixed signals. It was like catching lightning in a bottle for a while," he mentioned on Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen in February. "I'm not sure if it was sustainable considering my mental state. I don't think I was ready for a traditional relationship."

Schwartz humorously commented that he "probably needed to be committed" instead of pursuing a girlfriend, adding, "I was in a really strange place that I've never been in before. I'll stop talking now."

Editor's P/S:

Jo Wenberg's candid revelations on "Rachel Goes Rogue" offer a poignant perspective on her breakup with Tom Schwartz. The lack of trust that plagued their relationship ultimately led to their separation, leaving Wenberg feeling heartbroken and struggling to move on. Despite Schwartz's acknowledgment of their natural connection, the timing of their relationship proved to be a significant obstacle. Wenberg's vulnerability in sharing her experience highlights the emotional toll of a shattered connection, especially when it occurs in the public eye.

Furthermore, the article sheds light on the complexities of navigating a breakup while being a cast member on a reality show. Wenberg's transparency in discussing her mental struggles and the challenges of watching Schwartz's narrative unfold on screen provides a relatable glimpse into the emotional turmoil that can accompany such a public experience. It underscores the importance of prioritizing one's well-being and setting boundaries to protect against further pain.