Summary
Grey's Anatomy has often portrayed patient-doctor flirting that did not end well, but the latest instance deviated from this pattern.
Sam's playful interactions with Jo became a catalyst for Jo and Link to embrace their true emotions towards each other, resulting in a heartfelt declaration of love during the climactic conclusion of season 19.
In contrast to prior instances of romantic involvement between doctors and patients, Jo and Sam's bond lacked the profound intensity and therefore, Sam's untimely demise did not carry the same overwhelming devastation.
In Grey's Anatomy, the dynamic of patients and doctors flirting has been a recurring theme. However, the latest interaction hinted at a departure from the usual tragic outcomes often seen in the show. While previous instances of flirting have led to either romantic relationships or sorrowful endings, such as Meredith and Nick's future relationship, Grey's Anatomy has seen numerous cases where innocent flirting has resulted in heart-wrenching deaths. One example is Izzie falling for Denny Duquette and leaving her career after his passing, which has become an iconic representation of the show's tragic pattern.
Nonetheless, the most recent occurrence of patient-doctor flirting in Grey's Anatomy deviated from this pattern. When Sam Sutton arrived at Grey Sloan Memorial Hospital due to a base jumping accident, it initially appeared to be a challenging medical case without any immediate romantic potential. Only after Sam started flirting with Jo, revealing her desire to start dating again, did their connection show the potential for a love story. However, despite their connection being severed due to Jo and Link's declaration of love before Sam's medical emergency, their story did not follow the typical Grey's Anatomy pattern.
Sam Flirting With Jo Enabled Jo & Link's Love Declaration in Grey's Anatomy S19
Jo and Link harbored unspoken feelings for each other ever since they hooked up in Grey's Anatomy season 18 following Jo's supportive words. Their admission of mutual feelings didn't happen until the finale of Grey's Anatomy season 19, despite Jo previously mentioning her developing feelings for Link in episode 17. They prioritized preserving their friendship, even though their love for each other was evident through their actions. However, Link became jealous when he noticed Sam's obvious flirting with Jo and her positive reaction to it. This led Link to take out his frustration on Jo for wanting to explore other options, even though the only reason he hadn't confessed his love earlier was due to life's obstacles. Without Sam's flirtation and subsequent conversation with Jo about Link's protectiveness bordering on jealousy, Jo would never have confronted Link about moving out. Ultimately, it was the flirtatious connection between Sam and Jo that prompted Jo and Link to finally confess their feelings, with Link openly declaring his love for Jo in the ending of Grey's Anatomy season 19.
Unlike Jo & Sam, Izzy Loved Denny & Teddy Loved Henry Too
The connection between Sam and Jo, and the subsequent death of Sam, draws parallels to previous romantic relationships between patients and doctors in Grey's Anatomy. In Season 2, Izzie developed feelings for Denny while she was already in a relationship with Alex. Despite her initial commitment to not interfere, she went against her oath to ensure Denny received a heart, which ultimately left her distraught when he passed away.
Similarly, Teddy and Henry entered into a marriage of convenience for health insurance purposes, but eventually developed genuine emotions for each other. When Henry died, Teddy was devastated. While we have yet to see how Jo will react to Sam's death, it is unlikely to compare to the immense sorrow experienced by Izzie and Teddy after losing Denny and Henry respectively. The depth of their relationships and the time they had to develop feelings for each other intensifies the pain of their losses, surpassing any emotions Jo may experience from losing Sam.
Jo & Sam Only Liked Each Other, While The Others' Relationships Actually Grew
Jo's response to Sam's passing paled in comparison to the emotions experienced by Izzie and Teddy. Given that Sam's appearances on Grey's Anatomy were limited to season 19, episodes 17 to 20, Jo never truly formed a deep connection with him. While Sam and Jo shared mutual affection and entertained the idea of a potential future together, their bond was not solidified. Jo swiftly confessed her love to Link, showcasing her preexisting feelings for him. Therefore, Sam's demise in Grey's Anatomy can be seen as a sorrowful event but does not carry the same heart-wrenching impact as the deaths of characters like Denny and Henry.